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thanks eugeniaEugenia Karageorgiadi wrote: 13 Sep 2024, 18:53 A reminder to everyone:
You are AWESOME! You deserve THE WORLD. No one should put you down! YOU CAN DO THIS!
I am a hard worker. I am a good friend. I do my best. I am enough.
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hey everyone. I wanted to say a few things.
1.) Aria, I'm so sorry. I’ve experienced similar things, and it hurts like a broken heart. I personally don't think you did anything. I'm super hyper and annoying too, and I think that you should confront them (if you haven't already), because my friend did this once, and it worked out so well, that the friend who was hurting my friend stopped and hasn't done any meant thing to my friend since. it may not happen but it's always worth a try. *snugs*
2.)Reduciozo im not the best person in my small school. im just the girl who was in both friend groups, never wanting to take any side. then junior high happens and its like almost all of the girls become friends and we become one giant friend group. so I was like the outsider, the girl who just follows this friend group around, the girl eho didnt have a number kne best firned or nobodu thought me as one. and just as I start being near the top of the friend group, this girl who used to attend my school comes back and makes her way to very tippy top. but the only thing is everybody hates her. and she hates us. but she can't stand being at the bottom so she has to be at the top. Now this year, a few new girls come and attend my school. two of them make their way up to the top. not all the way but definitely higher than me. But on to yje real story... the past couple days at the my school, a few of my friends have been ignoring my new friend who was the new girl. They had been good and close friends. Just two mornings ago, the new girl started writing notes to me. they said that her and my other friends wasn't talking to her and that one of them was talking crap about them. and couple of my closer friends have been telling me not to trust the new girl, but right now, with most of my grade not friends with her, sometimes I feel split between my old friends and my new friend. and now I don't even know who to trust because the new girl girl said this, while my other friend says this, and this person said that, while that person says something totally different. and so tonight (so glad its the weekend. no more drama), I've prayed to my Lord, Jesus and asked Him what I should do- leave my new friend who may be a liar, or stay with her, or not even taking sides. I hate sides. If I go to one side, the other hates be, but if I sometimes converse with the other side, my side will hate me as well. but I wanted to get this off my chest and maybe get an idea what I should do.
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@Brookline Quinn, @Nadja Lavigne
thank you for your encouragement btw
I am a hard worker. I am a good friend. I do my best. I am enough.
thank you for your encouragement btw
I am a hard worker. I am a good friend. I do my best. I am enough.
Accalia Avalon
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High school is truly the roughest years of ones life, I would rather be homeless again than go back to high-school, but keep your chin up, the real ones do care about you and try to follow this motto "one or two true friends are worth a thousand fake"Aria Wright wrote: 6 Sep 2024, 17:53 Yesturday I found out that my friend group has been having sleepovers every saturday since june and been purposefully not inviting me and keeping it a secret from me. It hurts so bad because I thought I finally found a safe trusting friend group. I've invited them over on saturdays a few times in the past few months and now I know why they were always busy. I'm crushed. I keep asking myself what did I do wrong but I think maybe they just genuinely don't like me as a person which makes sense because I don't even like myself. I'm so annoying and hyper all the time
I hate high school
Also nothing wrong with being true to your hyper self sister! Others are jealous because we can get our energy and zest for life without stimulants.
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I couldn't agree more, highschool is always the toughest time for each teen (specifically in a social sense). Never let the opinions of other people dictate what you can and cannot do, afterall you are the one who is going to be doing said thing, not them. "Meglio soli che male accompagnati" meaning it's better alone than in bad company.Accalia Avalon wrote: 17 Sep 2024, 06:31High school is truly the roughest years of ones life, I would rather be homeless again than go back to high-school, but keep your chin up, the real ones do care about you and try to follow this motto "one or two true friends are worth a thousand fake"Aria Wright wrote: 6 Sep 2024, 17:53 Yesturday I found out that my friend group has been having sleepovers every saturday since june and been purposefully not inviting me and keeping it a secret from me. It hurts so bad because I thought I finally found a safe trusting friend group. I've invited them over on saturdays a few times in the past few months and now I know why they were always busy. I'm crushed. I keep asking myself what did I do wrong but I think maybe they just genuinely don't like me as a person which makes sense because I don't even like myself. I'm so annoying and hyper all the time
I hate high school
Also nothing wrong with being true to your hyper self sister! Others are jealous because we can get our energy and zest for life without stimulants.
You do you and the right people will always show, don't fret.
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There is another way to look at it.
Yes, it is unfortunate that they did not tell you that they were doing something and you felt left out. But, if they did not like you or care about your feelings then they would have likely made sure you knew so that you would feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can like someone, but not like doing certain things with someone. Sometimes they are a bad fit for an activity. For example, if you are loud and hyperactive, being somewhere all night might not be a great mix. This is not based on a dislike you you, but a like for eventual sleep. For example, my partner on long car rides is my nightmare unless he has a portable gaming device. I like him, he is my partner but if he is bored, I will get poked (literally) by him to escape his boredom. I avoid long car rides with him and make certain if I must that I am well prepared.
I'm not saying this is the situation in your case but there might be more to it than they secretly hate you because there is nothing really to be gained by maintaining a long-term charade. You might be losing some real friends if you let this come between you all.
There is something about ambition, how it not only propels you but also defines you.
Yes, it is unfortunate that they did not tell you that they were doing something and you felt left out. But, if they did not like you or care about your feelings then they would have likely made sure you knew so that you would feel bad about it.
Sometimes we can like someone, but not like doing certain things with someone. Sometimes they are a bad fit for an activity. For example, if you are loud and hyperactive, being somewhere all night might not be a great mix. This is not based on a dislike you you, but a like for eventual sleep. For example, my partner on long car rides is my nightmare unless he has a portable gaming device. I like him, he is my partner but if he is bored, I will get poked (literally) by him to escape his boredom. I avoid long car rides with him and make certain if I must that I am well prepared.
I'm not saying this is the situation in your case but there might be more to it than they secretly hate you because there is nothing really to be gained by maintaining a long-term charade. You might be losing some real friends if you let this come between you all.
There is something about ambition, how it not only propels you but also defines you.
Come be Comforted! <3
Yes, it's true.
And, appearances are deceiving... if it turns out the feelings you suspect are not real, (I hope so).
If things aren't going well, don't hesitate to find an anchor, a thought that will cheer you up.
When you fall, it's to get back up better. If you can't reach the stars by jumping, get in a rocket and go shoot them.
And, appearances are deceiving... if it turns out the feelings you suspect are not real, (I hope so).
If things aren't going well, don't hesitate to find an anchor, a thought that will cheer you up.
When you fall, it's to get back up better. If you can't reach the stars by jumping, get in a rocket and go shoot them.
Come be Comforted! <3
heyo!!!
Hope y'all are doing really good rn
Anyway, I’m really sorry if this isn’t a huge deal, but I wanted to share something that happened yesterday. I went to my cousin’s wedding, and honestly, I wish I hadn’t. A lot of you here might be teens, so you know how it is with pimples.
When I said hello to my cousin, he looked at gave me a super disgusted look and said some really bad stuff about my face. I'm not going into details, but it was all because of my pimples. He literally said “I can’t stand beside someone ugly.” WELL, I'M NOT UGLY—
The worst part? His wife and a few others around laughed instead of asking him to shut up. My parents just stood there and SMILED at them, and I really wish they had stopped them.
I don't usually open up to my family because they end up judging and blaming me. But I talked to my mom about it later and she only told me to ignore it, claiming my cousin was only joking. That really hurt because it didn't feel like a joke back then.
Again, idk if it's a big deal lol cuz everyone around me makes it seem like it isn't ;-;
You are not you when you are sane.