OOC Come be Comforted! <3

Layla Goldsky wrote: 10 Feb 2024, 06:11

I just broke my arm falling down stairs ;-;

Aw, I’m so sorry, Layla! I hope it heals quickly!

Hello, I don't expect any comfortation or anything else if they aren't given, because I don't mind it. Just spouting it out will be already emptying my feelings for now.

I know that I should be grateful, but until now I don't even know any things that are considered good coming from myself.
Do I have a good influence to people? No, it's not really often of me to socialize with others in real life.
Am I so fun or friendly to people that they won't mind talking with me all day?
Not really. I'm quite an awkward person. Sometimes I can't even comprehend any words.
Am I attractive?
I'm not a judge for that. But I don't think I'm considered one.

I've got teased for quite a several times, yes. People that are the opposite of my gender had a slight ick feeling over my existence, once or twice.

So, I'm not really an importance to some one or thing in general.
I was just here.

And I'm exhausted for living as myself.

I have a cold!!!

Annette Hazelriggs wrote: 11 Feb 2024, 11:22

Reducio

Hello, I don't expect any comfortation or anything else if they aren't given, because I don't mind it. Just spouting it out will be already emptying my feelings for now.
I know that I should be grateful, but until now I don't even know any things that are considered good coming from myself.
Do I have a good influence to people? No, it's not really often of me to socialize with others in real life.
Am I so fun or friendly to people that they won't mind talking with me all day?
Not really. I'm quite an awkward person. Sometimes I can't even comprehend any words.
Am I attractive?
I'm not a judge for that. But I don't think I'm considered one.
I've got teased for quite a several times, yes. People that are the opposite of my gender had a slight ick feeling over my existence, once or twice.
So, I'm not really an importance to some one or thing in general.
I was just here.
And I'm exhausted for living as myself.

I know it's easier said than done but you don't have to care about what other people think about you! You should just be happy being you and living life to its fullest. Just do what makes you happy and as a result you will shine because of this. Maybe people around you will take notice if you do this too as an added bonus. But even if they don't, as long as you are happy, that's all that should matter! Once you find someone to spend the rest of your life with (whenever that may be, but trust me, it will eventually happen for you, even if you don't think it will), that person will also be someone who will make you happy and who you can make happy too! Be positive!

-hugs-
-gives out love-

A lot of people know that being pressured of making something perfect is A lot to handle I mean I was chosen to host a event for my school and I have to plan EVERYTHING the categories the time the week I mean everything- and the fact that I'm in a student council makes it more pressuring especially since the other members are freaking not helpful it makes me mad which means I'm alone and I know that if I mess up I can kiss my position goodbye since the president of the stuco (student council) is a dictator and abuses her power.

Annette Hazelriggs wrote: 11 Feb 2024, 11:22 Hello, I don't expect any comfortation or anything else if they aren't given, because I don't mind it. Just spouting it out will be already emptying my feelings for now.

I know that I should be grateful, but until now I don't even know any things that are considered good coming from myself.
Do I have a good influence to people? No, it's not really often of me to socialize with others in real life.
Am I so fun or friendly to people that they won't mind talking with me all day?
Not really. I'm quite an awkward person. Sometimes I can't even comprehend any words.
Am I attractive?
I'm not a judge for that. But I don't think I'm considered one.

I've got teased for quite a several times, yes. People that are the opposite of my gender had a slight ick feeling over my existence, once or twice.

So, I'm not really an importance to some one or thing in general.
I was just here.

And I'm exhausted for living as myself.

A few quick things. Everyone fakes it. And that is Everyone with a capital E. People modify their appearance, their personality, their hobbies, etc. to accommodate those they surround themselves with. Very few people in your life will ever know who you are. It does not make you strange, wrong or irrelevant. It is a part of the human condition, this need to conform and this need to hide the terrible truth whatever it might be. People will tease, some people are @$$holes. They probably are not that nice to anyone, not that this diminishes their effect on you, the sense of displacement or loneliness you might feel.

Some people are better at faking it than others. Some people just suck.

My personal recommendation is to find your own corner. It might not be as big or as bright, but that is OK. Their only looks bright, they are faking more than you know. Maybe your corner will be closer to real, maybe that will be better for you. Friends, relationships and "fitting in" can be done on your own terms if you are hard-headed enough.

Brian Phillips wrote: 12 Feb 2024, 09:39 A lot of people know that being pressured of making something perfect is A lot to handle I mean I was chosen to host a event for my school and I have to plan EVERYTHING the categories the time the week I mean everything- and the fact that I'm in a student council makes it more pressuring especially since the other members are freaking not helpful it makes me mad which means I'm alone and I know that if I mess up I can kiss my position goodbye since the president of the stuco (student council) is a dictator and abuses her power.

Communicate your limitations so that collaboration can be possible. People might not be particularly helpful but usually people can excel at specific tasks.

Solomon Lear wrote: 12 Feb 2024, 22:35

Annette Hazelriggs wrote: 11 Feb 2024, 11:22 Hello, I don't expect any comfortation or anything else if they aren't given, because I don't mind it. Just spouting it out will be already emptying my feelings for now.

I know that I should be grateful, but until now I don't even know any things that are considered good coming from myself.
Do I have a good influence to people? No, it's not really often of me to socialize with others in real life.
Am I so fun or friendly to people that they won't mind talking with me all day?
Not really. I'm quite an awkward person. Sometimes I can't even comprehend any words.
Am I attractive?
I'm not a judge for that. But I don't think I'm considered one.

I've got teased for quite a several times, yes. People that are the opposite of my gender had a slight ick feeling over my existence, once or twice.

So, I'm not really an importance to some one or thing in general.
I was just here.

And I'm exhausted for living as myself.

A few quick things. Everyone fakes it. And that is Everyone with a capital E. People modify their appearance, their personality, their hobbies, etc. to accommodate those they surround themselves with. Very few people in your life will ever know who you are. It does not make you strange, wrong or irrelevant. It is a part of the human condition, this need to conform and this need to hide the terrible truth whatever it might be. People will tease, some people are @$$holes. They probably are not that nice to anyone, not that this diminishes their effect on you, the sense of displacement or loneliness you might feel.

Some people are better at faking it than others. Some people just suck.

My personal recommendation is to find your own corner. It might not be as big or as bright, but that is OK. Their only looks bright, they are faking more than you know. Maybe your corner will be closer to real, maybe that will be better for you. Friends, relationships and "fitting in" can be done on your own terms if you are hard-headed enough.

Professor-..
Your words are actually made me start thinking and introspecting myself for one more time. Thank you so much for the reply on this subject matter.

@Kim Sato And yours too ^▽^//
I've seen you quite often around here and finding out that you replied was a bit of a miracle (?) because you seems to be a geniunely good person yourself :"o))
So thank you again!
And I wish both of you the best of luck as well!!

I love theatre with all my heart. I'm in a production of Alice in Wonderland (I actually play Alice!) but no one there cares about the show. No one has that passion and it kind of sucks. We get nothing done in rehearsals and I'm so over it. I'm constantly having to remind people of their OWN solos and blocking and choreo, and then people make fun of me for being an over achiever. I want to drop out but I can't I feel so frustrated that I can't find friends that have passion for stuff. I feel like no one cares anymore.

Annette Hazelriggs wrote: 14 Feb 2024, 12:28

Reducio

Professor-..
Your words are actually made me start thinking and introspecting myself for one more time. Thank you so much for the reply on this subject matter.
@Kim Sato And yours too ^▽^//
I've seen you quite often around here and finding out that you replied was a bit of a miracle (?) because you seems to be a geniunely good person yourself :"o))
So thank you again!
And I wish both of you the best of luck as well!!

I agree with Lear too!
Thank you Annette! You seem like a nice person too! Hopefully things will look up for you soon!

Sarah Sailor wrote: 14 Feb 2024, 12:41 I love theatre with all my heart. I'm in a production of Alice in Wonderland (I actually play Alice!) but no one there cares about the show. No one has that passion and it kind of sucks. We get nothing done in rehearsals and I'm so over it. I'm constantly having to remind people of their OWN solos and blocking and choreo, and then people make fun of me for being an over achiever. I want to drop out but I can't I feel so frustrated that I can't find friends that have passion for stuff. I feel like no one cares anymore.

Congratulations on playing Alice! I bet you're excited about it!

Hm, well you can't make people do what they don't want to do and it seems you've been trying to help out already but no one is paying attention. The only thing I can think of is maybe just focus on yourself for now and maybe try and get the person you play opposite against to work with you for now if possible? As for the rest, there are some people who do better when it's closer to the date. So maybe just focus on yourself and your partner (if there is one?) for now and then when it gets closer to the date then check up on the other people again? There's a chance they might be more forthcoming at a later date, closer to the deadline. If not, I'm not sure what to do. Just do your best I guess? As for friends, I don't know what to say about that. If you're around people who don't seem to care and the end result is bad, maybe try something else with other people? These are just ideas, nothing concrete. Hopefully it helps?