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Madi McQuade wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 02:40

Aliana Duke wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 02:24

Madi McQuade wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 02:20 I practice on two teams for basketball and the first team is all the really good players and I'm the worst there. The girls on that team know that and whenever I mess up they start yelling at me and telling me what I'm doing wrong. It's really annoying and makes me wish I wasn't on that team anymore.

Okay well first of all f them. Second of all even if they may be technically better than you at basketbal they clearly aren’t good people. Also I don’t know you personally I’ve never seen you play basketball but I’m sure that they are just being stupid and yea you might not be as good 𝐲𝐞𝐭 key word. Keep working keep practicing hard and work for what you want. And in the future I know it sounds difficult but just ignore them they don’t know what there on an about. Sending good vibes hot coco and comfort foods your way! owl me if you need anything!

Thank you! Like I said I practice on two teams. I'm better than everyone else on one and worse than everyone else on the other. I mainly practice on the one I'm not doing well on. I know this is like a very childish complaint but idrc. It's really getting on my nerves and I feel like I'm going to break from the pressure

Thank you so much

It’s not childish at all I feel ya I would be pretty upset too! But as I said don’t let ‘em get to ya and I’m always here to chat!

Madi McQuade wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 02:20 I practice on two teams for basketball and the first team is all the really good players and I'm the worst there. The girls on that team know that and whenever I mess up they start yelling at me and telling me what I'm doing wrong. It's really annoying and makes me wish I wasn't on that team anymore.

Aww I’m so sry Madi, but the thing is, ur on the good team, cause ur good. And like Aliana said, f them.

Just a reminder good luck to anyone who has anything difficult going on today you got this!

Aliana Duke wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 00:49

Juniper Kyteler wrote: 6 Dec 2023, 23:42 Yes so true, I find the trickster likes to play tricks on you especially when things are out of your control. I'll keep you posted

Okay sounds good!! Sending good vibes to you!!

I finally got the email!! And it's great news too! Everything did turn out good in the end

Madi McQuade wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 02:20 I practice on two teams for basketball and the first team is all the really good players and I'm the worst there. The girls on that team know that and whenever I mess up they start yelling at me and telling me what I'm doing wrong. It's really annoying and makes me wish I wasn't on that team anymore.

That is such poor sportsmanship on their part and just plain mean. I'm sorry they're doing that to you.

I've just been soooo tired recently. I've been doing everything for everyone- helping people at school with their work, doing group projects alone because nobody else wants to work, letting everyone rant and complain to me (which I love doing, but it just drains me a lot). I always put my friends first and take all their baggage and problems onto my shoulders, and I feel like I just need to sleep for about a year. Depression is coming back and I'm super stressed about having enough money to buy my family and friends Christmas presents. And on top of all that, there's this person at school whos been really mean to me, making fun of me when I answer questions or glaring at me every time I talk. I am a little weird, I accept that, but she's been making me feel really bad about myself.

Sorry that was so long! I just needed to get it all off my chest.

Willow Byrne wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 18:09 I've just been soooo tired recently. I've been doing everything for everyone- helping people at school with their work, doing group projects alone because nobody else wants to work, letting everyone rant and complain to me (which I love doing, but it just drains me a lot). I always put my friends first and take all their baggage and problems onto my shoulders, and I feel like I just need to sleep for about a year. Depression is coming back and I'm super stressed about having enough money to buy my family and friends Christmas presents. And on top of all that, there's this person at school whos been really mean to me, making fun of me when I answer questions or glaring at me every time I talk. I am a little weird, I accept that, but she's been making me feel really bad about myself.

Sorry that was so long! I just needed to get it all off my chest.

I completely feel you! I’m the mom friend and the one who everyone goes to and I’m kinda stressed and everything myself! But it’s alright when people ask you for help to say I’m sorry I’m drained right now I can try to help you but I’m very stressed and tired that’s what I do and just like f her tbh she doesn’t get an opinion you are your own person!

Aliana Duke wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 18:13

Willow Byrne wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 18:09 I've just been soooo tired recently. I've been doing everything for everyone- helping people at school with their work, doing group projects alone because nobody else wants to work, letting everyone rant and complain to me (which I love doing, but it just drains me a lot). I always put my friends first and take all their baggage and problems onto my shoulders, and I feel like I just need to sleep for about a year. Depression is coming back and I'm super stressed about having enough money to buy my family and friends Christmas presents. And on top of all that, there's this person at school whos been really mean to me, making fun of me when I answer questions or glaring at me every time I talk. I am a little weird, I accept that, but she's been making me feel really bad about myself.

Sorry that was so long! I just needed to get it all off my chest.

I completely feel you! I’m the mom friend and the one who everyone goes to and I’m kinda stressed and everything myself! But it’s alright when people ask you for help to say I’m sorry I’m drained right now I can try to help you but I’m very stressed and tired that’s what I do and just like f her tbh she doesn’t get an opinion you are your own person!

Thank you, you are so sweet This community honestly helps me so much and I always feel loved and appreciated when I'm on here.

Willow Byrne wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 18:18

Aliana Duke wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 18:13

Willow Byrne wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 18:09 I've just been soooo tired recently. I've been doing everything for everyone- helping people at school with their work, doing group projects alone because nobody else wants to work, letting everyone rant and complain to me (which I love doing, but it just drains me a lot). I always put my friends first and take all their baggage and problems onto my shoulders, and I feel like I just need to sleep for about a year. Depression is coming back and I'm super stressed about having enough money to buy my family and friends Christmas presents. And on top of all that, there's this person at school whos been really mean to me, making fun of me when I answer questions or glaring at me every time I talk. I am a little weird, I accept that, but she's been making me feel really bad about myself.

Sorry that was so long! I just needed to get it all off my chest.

I completely feel you! I’m the mom friend and the one who everyone goes to and I’m kinda stressed and everything myself! But it’s alright when people ask you for help to say I’m sorry I’m drained right now I can try to help you but I’m very stressed and tired that’s what I do and just like f her tbh she doesn’t get an opinion you are your own person!

Thank you, you are so sweet This community honestly helps me so much and I always feel loved and appreciated when I'm on here.

Aww ofc feel free to owl me if you ever need to chat!!

This is gonna be for Aliana and Willow and simply everyone who needs to hear it. You are not alone and it's okay to say no. Say no if you feel drained and can't help someone, say no to every mean person and just not notice them. It's okay to allow yourself feel the way you feel, but try to find in every day even a small reason to smile, to tell yourself you're beautiful, you're awesome, you're wonderful and you are enough

And let it sound a bit selfish, but learn to choose yourself and care about yourself first, then as much as you can and it doesn't make you feel bad help others. If you focus on helping others while draining yourself, it will take time to find your own happiness, so just learn to love yourself in a good way and you'll be shining

Linda Ramirez wrote: 7 Dec 2023, 20:32 This is gonna be for Aliana and Willow and simply everyone who needs to hear it. You are not alone and it's okay to say no. Say no if you feel drained and can't help someone, say no to every mean person and just not notice them. It's okay to allow yourself feel the way you feel, but try to find in every day even a small reason to smile, to tell yourself you're beautiful, you're awesome, you're wonderful and you are enough

And let it sound a bit selfish, but learn to choose yourself and care about yourself first, then as much as you can and it doesn't make you feel bad help others. If you focus on helping others while draining yourself, it will take time to find your own happiness, so just learn to love yourself in a good way and you'll be shining

Aww that’s rly nice. I’m so glad I came upon this, I rly needed it:)