17 May 2023, 19:49
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17 May 2023, 19:49
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17 May 2023, 19:50
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17 May 2023, 19:50
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I think you always have a temperament, but the circumstances around you shape what directionAvery Leveret wrote: 17 May 2023, 19:13I agree mostly, in that what you make of life is much more important and significant than what life makes of you. But Temperament is genetic though, so people are predisposed to be more violent than others. So whilst nurture is pretty important, that are some nature factors that can't be ignored!Lucian Mornstern wrote: 17 May 2023, 15:58I lean very Pro-Nurtue. You can have a drunk dad and a mum that partakes in drugs yet depending on your situation, who you spend time with, how you’re brought up (not necessarily by your parents because in some cases friends parents, teachers, people you see on TV etc) can also help mould your future. But also the idea of, I don’t want to be like you. Like, no one is born inherently bad, your fate isn’t set (imo). All these sickos on TV are like this because of something in their life, not because they were born evil.Qrow Beithir wrote: 17 May 2023, 15:48Oof, nature vs nurture is tricky cause on one hand, genetic factors we get from our parents can affect how we act, and on the other, how we are taught to deal with things as we grow up also affects it...Lucian Mornstern wrote: 17 May 2023, 15:45Milgrams Shock Experiment, yeah. I love Development, Social Influence and Criminal Psychology. Where do you stand on Nature vs Nurture, Situational vs Dispositional?Qrow Beithir wrote: 17 May 2023, 15:33
Psychology>>>
Love learning about Milgrams variations and how memory works and stuff!
As for History, I'd enjoy it more I it was ancient history rather than learning about the wars and stuff...
And yeah, but I love all the war stuff. I love learning about the Cold War. America sucks, can’t lie. Love Restoration. Health is eh.
There is always a reason for a reaction. The things we internalise and don’t even realise we internalise. And then add on the fact our brains are still developing and your formal operational stage is sort of crucial times for development and stuff. It’s where moral reasoning comes into play — amongst other stuff. Especially around 11/12. You’re taught morals and manners from your parents/people around you.
I could talk a lot about this haha. I know that I am very Nurture in this debate. There are loads of situational factors
you take, and what parts of your behaviour you consider acceptable. Similarity, your temperament changes by the way you react to your environment, and whether people condone it or not. There’s this quote that goes something like this: “People don’t change, they just get better at hiding it.” and while I don’t totally believe it, there’s is an element of truth on how you don’t really change, just what you choose to project is different. For example, you could always be a really quick-tempered person, just different things rise your temper, and you express it in different ways. Another interesting little tidbit is how people often end up projecting the relationship of their parents into their own relationships. It wouldn’t be an exact replica, but there would be parallels.
17 May 2023, 19:55
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Hey André!
| I’m sorry. Did I step on your moment? | To change the world it takes a little genius. |
How on earth did you manage to turn a safety room into a not-so-safety room. |
17 May 2023, 20:00
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^•^Duvessa Ember wrote: 17 May 2023, 18:44Oi hey. I was planning on replying later, no hurt feelingsLucian Mornstern wrote: 17 May 2023, 18:41Ah yes. I hate doing that — worst thing is not even realising you have hurt their feelings unless they either tell me or I feel they are “texting different” or acting different. Also a big over thinker haha.Clara Alexander wrote: 17 May 2023, 18:34I was joking with Duvessa but I may of accidentally hurt her feelings. {Already sent a owl}Lucian Mornstern wrote: 17 May 2023, 18:32What’s the context?
I myself find apologies hard. Not exactly on a pride level but I feel embarrassed ig.
i think you just need to be like “I’m sorry for [whatever happened]. How can I make it right? I never meant to hurt you (?)” or smthn like that
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