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People! I had to go back to my old school to do musical practice and all they did was pick on me and talk behind my back. Everyones like don't let it bother you and I'm like do you actually know what bullying can do to a person. And then the one person I thought was my friend was a dick. So yeah I just hate my life at the momentLucian Mornstern wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:25What’s up?Thorn Cullen wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:24 I have had a shit afternoon, i've been bawling my eyes out for the last 20 minutes
@Lucian Mornstern
If you can't play the good guy, sometimes you've got to play the villain.
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I'm so sorry that is happening to you. As someone who can heavily relate, I want to tell you it soo gets better. I know it hurts a lot now and yes it can be unbearable at times. But I want you to remember this. In a year or so you're going to look back at this and laugh. That's what I'm doing now, it got so much better. I'm laughing at all my bullies because they can not do anything to me and I'm at a much better place now. So if you can, find someone to help you through this now, online or in real life. And I promise you, you will get through this and you'll end up in a much better place. Love and comfort for you darling 
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Thank you Anna
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I went to public school until 2nd grade and then I was removed from school by my parents when a friend told my mom that I was being bullied all the time, especially by this one boy. I even remember the last name...but yeah, so I was homeschooled from 2nd grade (after I was taken out by my parents when the teachers wouldn't do anything about it and were like kids will be kids) until junior year of hs where I wanted to go back. My experience from junior year and senior year was AWESOME.
Soooo good, I was really happy I went back! I got some of the best experiences of my life then!
Therefore, I'm sad that things like this have to happen to you now but later on in life things will definitely look up for you! In the meantime you can be comforted on HiO!
In the comfort thread! And the chat thread!
Soooo good, I was really happy I went back! I got some of the best experiences of my life then!
Therefore, I'm sad that things like this have to happen to you now but later on in life things will definitely look up for you!
In the meantime you can be comforted on HiO!In the comfort thread! And the chat thread!
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I’m sorry TThorn Cullen wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:29People! I had to go back to my old school to do musical practice and all they did was pick on me and talk behind my back. Everyones like don't let it bother you and I'm like do you actually know what bullying can do to a person. And then the one person I thought was my friend was a dick. So yeah I just hate my life at the momentLucian Mornstern wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:25What’s up?Thorn Cullen wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:24 I have had a shit afternoon, i've been bawling my eyes out for the last 20 minutes
@Lucian Mornstern
I get the bullying thing. I have been bullied a lot and it changed me. I became more prone to fights and quicker to think someone is being mean to me especially since I can’t really tell thru their tone of voice. Just keep your head up love! You’re an amazing person and a funny person and if they knew who you were really then they would be jealous of the woman you are!
And who gives a f about that so called friend!? Screw em! People can be dicks, that’s how the world works! I’ve met plenty of them. They either spoke about me behind my back, called me names or wanted to fight me.
Just keep your head up and know you have friends here at least!! *hugs and kisses cheek*
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Aww Lucian, your gonna make me cry thank you!Lucian Mornstern wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:46I’m sorry TThorn Cullen wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:29People! I had to go back to my old school to do musical practice and all they did was pick on me and talk behind my back. Everyones like don't let it bother you and I'm like do you actually know what bullying can do to a person. And then the one person I thought was my friend was a dick. So yeah I just hate my life at the momentLucian Mornstern wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:25What’s up?Thorn Cullen wrote: 28 Feb 2023, 22:24 I have had a shit afternoon, i've been bawling my eyes out for the last 20 minutes
@Lucian Mornstern
I get the bullying thing. I have been bullied a lot and it changed me. I became more prone to fights and quicker to think someone is being mean to me especially since I can’t really tell thru their tone of voice. Just keep your head up love! You’re an amazing person and a funny person and if they knew who you were really then they would be jealous of the woman you are!
And who gives a f about that so called friend!? Screw em! People can be dicks, that’s how the world works! I’ve met plenty of them. They either spoke about me behind my back, called me names or wanted to fight me.
Just keep your head up and know you have friends here at least!! *hugs and kisses cheek*
If you can't play the good guy, sometimes you've got to play the villain.
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I'm going to be a bit more honest. Bullies suck. They will effect you and they do not 'grow up' in many cases, they just transition from being mean girls (and boys) to catty women (and men). Often their critiques and criticisms have enough truth to make you feel bad. However, there is no pleasing them. Their standards are unattainable. It is what makes real friends valuable, they are very rare. You hold onto them and you nurture that relationship. As for those people, they are not nice people. Beyond telling them that they hurt you, I would seek removing myself from their company if they do not make amends.
Suggestion:
1. explain how they hurt you and that they did.
2. remove yourself from them.
3. speak up to an authority, do not expect their help.
4. tell your parents, do not expect their help.
5. seek friends that will not do what happened with #1.
If at any point these people attempt to make amends and you choose to trust that, by all means do so. But do not forget what they did do. It is likely that they will do it again, but there are rare cases where they do 'grow' and try to make real, true change. If that happens and you can forgive them, then do so. If not, there is a big world out there.
Suggestion:
1. explain how they hurt you and that they did.
2. remove yourself from them.
3. speak up to an authority, do not expect their help.
4. tell your parents, do not expect their help.
5. seek friends that will not do what happened with #1.
If at any point these people attempt to make amends and you choose to trust that, by all means do so. But do not forget what they did do. It is likely that they will do it again, but there are rare cases where they do 'grow' and try to make real, true change. If that happens and you can forgive them, then do so. If not, there is a big world out there.
There is something about ambition, how it not only propels you but also defines you.
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Mhm what Lear said!
And it’s ok to cry Thorn! What i’ve slowly accepted is that tears don’t make you weak! After many outbursts which have lead to crying, it can make you feel better in the long run! Now i’ve gtg my darling, at a busy road, but keep your head up
And it’s ok to cry Thorn! What i’ve slowly accepted is that tears don’t make you weak! After many outbursts which have lead to crying, it can make you feel better in the long run! Now i’ve gtg my darling, at a busy road, but keep your head up
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I will you guys, thank you for this. I'm so glad I have found my people here
If you can't play the good guy, sometimes you've got to play the villain.