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Bailey Glade wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:37 hiiii!!!!
*drops this here and runs*

Reducio

ok im coming for advice as well - hehehe to all my older sisters/siblings out there:

sooooo..... i mayyyy have a crush...... mayyyyyyybeee...
anyways, backstory: i have only gone to an actual school for pre k and kindergarten. one of my classmates, let's call him P, has several siblings. one of his sisters went to school with my brother, etc.
We go to mass and church at several different churches, depending on our schedules. One day we went to mass, and one of the altar servers was P. He had really grown up (i mean i have as well) and is quite cute.
butttt..... i only really see him at mass occasionally, and i have no ideas on how or why to approach him. i can spot him in a crowd, but i doubt he remembers or recognizes me.
its been about 10 years since we were in kindergarten together, so..... i have no ideas as for his likes and dislikes, etc. i may have goggle stalked him, and found his football number and such from a school picture, but no way am i admitting to that
what should i do?

Taizu Miyashiro wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:42

Bailey Glade wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:37 hiiii!!!!
*drops this here and runs*

Reducio

ok im coming for advice as well - hehehe to all my older sisters/siblings out there:

sooooo..... i mayyyy have a crush...... mayyyyyyybeee...
anyways, backstory: i have only gone to an actual school for pre k and kindergarten. one of my classmates, let's call him P, has several siblings. one of his sisters went to school with my brother, etc.
We go to mass and church at several different churches, depending on our schedules. One day we went to mass, and one of the altar servers was P. He had really grown up (i mean i have as well) and is quite cute.
butttt..... i only really see him at mass occasionally, and i have no ideas on how or why to approach him. i can spot him in a crowd, but i doubt he remembers or recognizes me.
its been about 10 years since we were in kindergarten together, so..... i have no ideas as for his likes and dislikes, etc. i may have goggle stalked him, and found his football number and such from a school picture, but no way am i admitting to that
what should i do?

Post bomb, jeez. /j

Reducio

In terms of your question, I think that you should just try and become his friend. That's one of the biggest things that people forget when they try and get into a relationship. Go for the baby steps in a friendship, and get closer slowly. It's one of the best ways to get to know him and get into a healthy relationship with someone. So talk to him. Make an excuse or something. doesn't matter what it is, and take your time with it.

In other news, Hey everyone else!!

Reducio

that's honestly what i want to do. not sure im ready for a relationship, and would defiantly want to be his friend. we'll how things progress, and if i ever get the courage to approach him lolol
thanks Taizu, you're the best

Bailey Glade wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:44

Taizu Miyashiro wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:42

Bailey Glade wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:37 hiiii!!!!
*drops this here and runs*

Reducio

ok im coming for advice as well - hehehe to all my older sisters/siblings out there:

sooooo..... i mayyyy have a crush...... mayyyyyyybeee...
anyways, backstory: i have only gone to an actual school for pre k and kindergarten. one of my classmates, let's call him P, has several siblings. one of his sisters went to school with my brother, etc.
We go to mass and church at several different churches, depending on our schedules. One day we went to mass, and one of the altar servers was P. He had really grown up (i mean i have as well) and is quite cute.
butttt..... i only really see him at mass occasionally, and i have no ideas on how or why to approach him. i can spot him in a crowd, but i doubt he remembers or recognizes me.
its been about 10 years since we were in kindergarten together, so..... i have no ideas as for his likes and dislikes, etc. i may have goggle stalked him, and found his football number and such from a school picture, but no way am i admitting to that
what should i do?

Post bomb, jeez. /j

Reducio

In terms of your question, I think that you should just try and become his friend. That's one of the biggest things that people forget when they try and get into a relationship. Go for the baby steps in a friendship, and get closer slowly. It's one of the best ways to get to know him and get into a healthy relationship with someone. So talk to him. Make an excuse or something. doesn't matter what it is, and take your time with it.

In other news, Hey everyone else!!

lolol yep

Reducio

that's honestly what i want to do. not sure im ready for a relationship, and would defiantly want to be his friend. we'll how things progress, and if i ever get the courage to approach him lolol
thanks Taizu, you're the best

Taizu Miyashiro wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:45

Bailey Glade wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:44

Taizu Miyashiro wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:42

Bailey Glade wrote: 24 Feb 2023, 18:37 hiiii!!!!
*drops this here and runs*

Reducio

ok im coming for advice as well - hehehe to all my older sisters/siblings out there:

sooooo..... i mayyyy have a crush...... mayyyyyyybeee...
anyways, backstory: i have only gone to an actual school for pre k and kindergarten. one of my classmates, let's call him P, has several siblings. one of his sisters went to school with my brother, etc.
We go to mass and church at several different churches, depending on our schedules. One day we went to mass, and one of the altar servers was P. He had really grown up (i mean i have as well) and is quite cute.
butttt..... i only really see him at mass occasionally, and i have no ideas on how or why to approach him. i can spot him in a crowd, but i doubt he remembers or recognizes me.
its been about 10 years since we were in kindergarten together, so..... i have no ideas as for his likes and dislikes, etc. i may have goggle stalked him, and found his football number and such from a school picture, but no way am i admitting to that
what should i do?

Post bomb, jeez. /j

Reducio

In terms of your question, I think that you should just try and become his friend. That's one of the biggest things that people forget when they try and get into a relationship. Go for the baby steps in a friendship, and get closer slowly. It's one of the best ways to get to know him and get into a healthy relationship with someone. So talk to him. Make an excuse or something. doesn't matter what it is, and take your time with it.

In other news, Hey everyone else!!

lolol yep

Reducio

that's honestly what i want to do. not sure im ready for a relationship, and would defiantly want to be his friend. we'll how things progress, and if i ever get the courage to approach him lolol
thanks Taizu, you're the best

It's how things have worked for me in every relationship I've had!! Plus, friends are really awesome!!!