36 Questions to Get to Know You IC

I love these xD
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
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2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
It depends. Lucia would like to be semi-famous in the music world - as in, she'd love to maybe write and release an album or something that people enjoyed, but she wouldn't want to be so famous that everyone would recognise her on first glance.
3. Before making a telephone call/wizarding equivalent, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Lucia barely ever makes phone calls, but she does often plan out what she will write in an owl, though her owls still tend to include a lot of crossings-out.
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
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5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
To herself, probably a few hours ago at most. She's often humming or singing to herself. To someone else, probably about a month or so, depending on the time of year.
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
Body
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
No
8. Name three things you and the person who responded before you appear to have in common.
Both don't think about death much, both hum to themselves a lot, and both are grateful for their family.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
Her sisters
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
She wouldn't be taught such bad things to keep her away from muggles and muggle-borns. She would have been taught that 'mudblood' was an insult.
11. Take a paragraph or two and tell your life story in as much detail as possible.
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12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability (NOT a super power, like, a regular human ability), what would it be?
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13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
If she ever found true love. lol she's so cheesy
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
Visiting Paris. She hasn't done it because she's twelve years old, can't go by herself, and knows Ebony doesn't have the funds to take her.
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
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16. What do you value most in a friendship?
Acceptance, creativity, and a love of music.
17. What is your most treasured memory?
Probably when Ebony gave her her trunk for her birthday. It used to belong to Ebony when she was Lucia's age.
18. What is your most terrible memory?
The first anniversary of her aunt's death that she can remember. Each year, Ebony seems to hide away and mourn for her dead twin, and being a young child Lucia at that time didn't understand it.
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
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20. What does friendship mean to you?
When someone likes you, and you like them back, and you share things together, even if it's just similar experiences or you like the same things.
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
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22. Name three things your character would have a hard time admitting that they like about themselves.
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23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
Lucia's family is pretty tight-knit. Yes, although she'd never have really thought about it like that.
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
Lucia loves her, and she loves Lucia. Sometimes she makes bad descisions about how to bring up Lucia and her sisters, but she does it for them and Lucia still loves her through it.
25. Make three true “we” statements about you and your character's best friend
Well, she doesn't really have one lol
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
music.
27. If you were going to become a close friend with the person who posted before you, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
She doesn't do sarcasm well, or teasing, but she is loyal to her friends.
28. Tell the person who posted before you what you like about them (if your characters don't know each other IC, you can say something you OoC like about the character before you); be very honest.
OOC: Just gonna say one thing because I meant for this to be quick and it's already taken quite a while lol- How she sand tribute songs to her dead friend. It's so touching and sweet.
29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
Lucia thought the ballroom was empty so started dancing with an imaginary partner, only then @Scarlett Aden came in and it was so awkward-
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
She doesn't cry infront of people very much, unless she trusts them.
31. What's something you like about your worst enemy?
She doesn't have one yet lol
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Love and death, especially dead people.
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
She would regret not having told her family she loves them. And she has told them, she'd just want to tell them one last time.
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
Either her sewing box, or her radio. Probably her sewing box. It holds lots of memories for her and she treasures it.
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most upsetting? Why?
Willow's. She's so young and carefree.
36. Give advice to the person above you for their problem in question 36. Then, state your own problem for the person who posts after you to give you advice on.
Try talking to an empty room about it, or writing it in a diary. Then you won't feel like you're troubling anyone, but you're still getting it out of your system, and when you're talking it through/writing it down you'll probably think of a solution.

Lucia's not great singing infront of crowds (like, 10+ people).
I'm sorry lol, I couldn't think of anything- xDDD

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36 Questions to Get to Know You IC
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
"Probably Edgar Allen Poe, I just want know what went on inside that guy's head. He's a big inspiration for me and while the horror and the macabre aren't really what I write, the way he wrote really inspires me. I also just want to comfort the guy, like he went through so much pain and turmoil in his life and eventually every shoulder he had to cry on just died. The guy needed a hug in his life."
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
"I mean what I want to do for a living is writing but I honestly would be completely content using a pseudonym and never getting any credit. Obviously, I'd want the royalties but never have the public know it was me writing. I think fame is something people search for because they want to be remembered or they want to leave an impact on the world but I've never really wanted that, I don't think I'm the kind of person that should look upon and influencing a lot of people's lives in some way."
3. Before making a telephone call/wizarding equivalent, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
"No, I have a looot of things messed up with me but anxiety is not one of them. I don't normally care about I say which sometimes ends up being a bad thing because I hurt people's feelings without caring. On a call though, there's not much you can mess up since you're normally taking to a friend or ordering something. I guess when I need to make "professional calls" I'll plan it out but until then I just call people."
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
"The perfect day would start on a cool Autumn day with all my chores, which is most of the housework honestly, done. Then have my perfect breakfast, two sunny side up eggs, pork sausage, and some homemade hashbrowns. Then I would take my notebook and a packed lunch with some chips and a mustard and roast beef sandwich. I would go a bit out of town, climb up this giant tree there is, and just write all day and eat when lunch comes. When dinner comes, I'll go back into to town and go to this great diner that sells the best pulled pork sandwiches and black forest doughnuts. It involves a lot of food I know, I like food."
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
"Don't tell anyone but I normally go into the rehearsal room early every Sunday morning and just jam out on the piano and sing. I get embarrassed about it because my town thinks that singing is kind of girly and I don't really like my singing voice. One girl did catch me in there one time, she was nice though so it was chill."
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
"I don't really have the best experience with old people so probably the mind of a 30-year-old. All the elders in my town are super old and crotchety and I don't want to turn into them. They also treat me like a puppet, I guess because they think they're sooo wise and smart because they're soooo old."
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
"Not really, I mean I have these weird dreams or hallucination kind of things where my mom gets killed in various ways which are terrifying and traumatizing, but I'm always alive in them. Honestly, as long as I go down in a cool way and not from like, old age or something, then I
don't really care how I die."
8. Name three things you and the person who responded before you appear to have in common.
"Lucia and I seem to both have good relationships with our mother, although y relationship is starting to be built on more and more lies... We don't like singing in front of people nor do we cry in front of people either. I think we would get along, but she probably wouldn't like my humor."
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
"I'm grateful for the basics, you know? Food, water, a roof to live under, a loving mother. I didn't have much room to be spoiled as a kid, but that's fine. I don't need a lot, as long as my mum cares about me, I don't need anything else from her. Other than that, probably the opportunity to go this school. I feel so free here and less chained to certain things like at my hometown."
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
"Like I mentioned above, I really wish I wasn't as restrained as I am in my hometown. Like I get appeasing the word of the Lord and all that stuff, but I feel like the way my town does it is a bit much. Like, when I'm at Hogwarts I feel like I can do anything, well not anything, but I feel so much more free."
11. Take a paragraph or two and tell your life story in as much detail as possible.
"So I was born on December 13th, 2007 in a hospital, and my dad wasn't present because he was on a golfing trip with his friends; this would become a pattern. The first couple years of my life were pretty uneventful, though there was a lot of arguing that I don't remember very clearly. When I was six, my mum finally divorced my dad. I had my first magical experience when I appeared on the roof because I didn't want to go to the courthouse again. My dad took off when the divorce was finalized and we haven't heard from him since. I got my letter for Hogwarts as expected since both my parents were wizards. I've finished up my First Year at Hogwarts where, most notably, I got sorted into Slytherin, I started having weird vision-like dreams, and I got poisoned by a giant spider, still have some discoloration from where the poison entered."
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability (NOT a super power, like, a regular human ability), what would it be?
"I wish I was smart, like actually smart. I get good grades and all, but that's just because I'm good at regurgitating information, actually smart-wise I'm not the brightest. It would just be so cool if someone asked me something and I just always knew the answer off the top of my head."
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
"I'd probably want to know where my dad is right now. It's not like I want to tell him off or to beg him to come back, I just want to know why he did it. Why did he put me and my mother into this position without regard for anyone but himself? It'd also be nice if he would actually start paying my mum child support."
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
"I've been wanting to go to the coast since I was really little. I've lived right in the center of Scotland my entire life and I've never been to the coast and seen the ocean ever. The main problem is my mother, she hates the ocean and her work schedule is too tight for us to take a nice trip down there. Plus, I never learned to swim so it's not like I could go in. I guess learning to swim would be first on my agenda."
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
"I don't really know, I haven't really done much in my life yet. I guess it's pretty cool that I practically got straight O's in school so far miraculously. I'm not the smartest, but I guess I'm pretty good at regurgitating information. I would say my writing, but I think I would need to actually publish my novels for them to be considered 'accomplishments'."
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
"Above all else, I just want my friend to have a good sense of humor. I tend to cope with jokes so if my friend can't joke with me, then it's probably going to be a very awkward friendship."
17. What is your most treasured memory?
"When I was younger, during the summers, I would be home alone most of the time because my mother was at work. When she got home later that night, though, we would order takeout and then just watch cheesy movies until we fell asleep. We haven't done it in a while... I miss it."
18. What is your most terrible memory?
"Definitely when I got bitten by those weird spiders in the Slytherin common room. They hit my right in one of my arteries and my entire body was writhing in pain. To this day, I still wake up in a cold sweat thinking about how much pain I was in. My skin is still ashen where the spider's venom entered."
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
"I would probably interact with more people if I knew I was going to die in a year.I tend to just keep my distance from people and just try to pass through the school year as calmly as possible, though that hasn't succeeded that well, but if I was going to die in a year, I can't wait until adulthood to go on a bunch of adventures."
20. What does friendship mean to you?
"Friendship is being in a relationship with someone that doesn't require you to care about what you say. If you're friends with someone, you can talk to them about anything... well maybe not anything... and they won't care."
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
"Where I come from boys are pretty discouraged from showing their emotions because that's too "girly". I guess it's pretty dumb, but it's pretty ingrained in me to no be that affectionate. I tend to be slow to love or trust people. I guess it has something to do with how my dad treated me when I was a child, I just don't want to let someone as easily as I did."
22. Name three things your character would have a hard time admitting that they like about themselves.
"Hmm.. I guess I actually do like my singing voice. A lot of people say it's pretty good, but I make myself think I don't. I think it's because I feel guilty singing and that's my way of punishing myself. I wouldn't admit this to anyone, even myself, but I think I actually care about how my words affect others. I don't know, I guess I like my appearance. I've always wanted something different about me, but I guess I look pretty good for a brown-haired, brown-eyed boy with no defining features."
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
"Me and my mother are pretty close considering we don't see each other for most of the day. Compared to most families, we're definitely not the happiest, but we still get along just fine. We're definitely a broken family, though, lose any contest compared to your local nuclear family."
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
"Like I said before, we're pretty close considering our situation. I love her a lot, and we both would definitely sacrifice a lot for the other. Lately, though, I've been lying to her a lot for her own sake. The biggest lie in particular is that I've been hiding my new pygmy puff, Chance, from her since she doesn't want me to have him."
25. Make three true “we” statements about you and your character's best friend
"I don't really have a best friend. I don't get along with a lot of kids in my town so I don't have any childhood friends. As for my First Year at Hogwarts, I didn't really make any friends. He kind of wanted to just pass through his school life peacefully, but that hasn't exactly gone as planned."
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
"I wish I had someone with whom I could share my feelings with. I always feel like I'm not allowed to feel my emotions as a dude, but I genuinely want to let my feelings out to someone for once."
27. If you were going to become a close friend with the person who posted before you, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
"Well, Lucia, it seems that you're not a big fan of dark humor, which is completely fine. However, I find the best way for me to cope with my problems is to joke about it so we're going to need to have a discussion on what humor upsets you so I can avoid making those jokes."
28. Tell the person who posted before you what you like about them (if your characters don't know each other IC, you can say something you OoC like about the character before you); be very honest.
Genuinely, I think you have a really fleshed out character for only being on this site for a couple of months. I know I only recently knew where I wanted to take my character, and how his backstory effects his current life and I've been on the site for an entire year.
29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
"Cut back to when the spiders attacked the Slytherin common room in my First Year. I wasn't prepared for that fight, but I ignored everyone's advice and fought anyway. I ended up starting a fire, including setting one girl's hair on fire. I made the situation more dangerous all so I could play hero. I'm pretty embarrassed about all the damage I caused."
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
"I've not cried in front of anyone, including my mother, other than when I was like a small child and I got hurt or something. In secret, I cry in my sleep quite a lot. I don't admit it a lot, but I deal with a lot of problems with identity and self worth, which causes me to just break down and cry quite a lot."
31. What's something you like about your worst enemy?
"I don't really a 'worst' enemy, but I do have a lot of people who don't like me. I'm pretty agressive and tend to start fights with a lot of people, especially the kids in my village. I guess I do it to prove something to myself and my town that I am this like macho man."
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
"I think if you're dealing with something like death, sickness, or mental illnesses then if that helps you cope, joke about it as long as the people you're joking with won't get triggered or upset. Obviously, though, if you're joking about something that dehumanizes people, especially if it's a joke on someone's gender, race, sexuality, religion, etc., then that's utterly too far in every way."
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
"I still need to to apologize to the girl whose hair I set on fire. I feel extremely bad about it, probably the thing I'm most guilty of. The only problem, is that I don't know who she is since I was also unconscious so I don't know how to."
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
"I would definitely save my journal. It's one of my most prized possessions, containing most of all my writings, so if I lost it, I would lose like years of work I put into my writing."
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most upsetting? Why?
"Obviously, I would be most upset if my mum died. She cared for me by herself practically all her life, and always finds time for me despite having such a busy work schedule. My father could be dead right now for all I know, I don't care."
36. Give advice to the person above you for their problem in question 36. Then, state your own problem for the person who posts after you to give you advice on.
"I mean when it comes to piano itself, I don't have much performance anxiety, but I completely understand that feeling when I'm singing. To be honest, I'm probably never going to sing in front of anyone any time soon, but when I play piano, I find it's easier to focus on what you're doing with your entire mind. Pretend like you're meditating and forget about the world around you."
Should I tell my mom about Chance? I'm worried that I'll lose him if I do, but I feel like I shouldn't be lying to her.

"Quotes are for dumb people who can't think of something intelligent to say on their own. Like me."
Bo Burnham
36 Questions to Get to Know You IC
Reviving this thread because it seems kinda dead and I love the questions!
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
"Oh... well, I would love to have dinner with any of my friends or loved ones, of course! My boyfriend, my best mate, my parents, my current house-elf, my old one... but outside of people I actually know, I suppose I'd love to meet Dilys Derwent. She was a Healer and Headmistress of Hogwarts, after all! Talk about wearing multiple hats! I'm sure she would just have so much to teach me. Though I'm not sure I could cook to her liking, not after a whole lifetime of Hogwarts feasts..."
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
"Famous, not really, but I wouldn't mind being well-known. Like the kind when you walk down the street and everyone knows your name, and you know each of them in turn, friendly with everybody in your area!"
3. Before making a telephone call/wizarding equivalent, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
"No, but I probably should, else I'll go on one of my rambles..."
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
"Well, I think it would all start with actually waking up on time to get breakfast... I oversleep far too often! Then I'd have a full day of enjoyable classes and learn a lot, with time for a lunch break with my best mate @Dealla Prince. After classes I'd have time to garden and check in on the grounds' wildflowers until dinner, then perhaps spend the evening in Hogsmeade shopping for dessert (Cauldron Cakes, anyone?) and finally end the day with a perfectly romantic midnight broom ride with @Aaron Jones. It's a lot, but I like to keep busy!"
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
"Oh, Merlin, I can't sing worth a lick! I hum under my breath when I'm out in the garden, though."
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
"Well, bodies come and go, but knowledge is forever. I suppose that's what makes me a Ravenclaw. I'd rather keep all my learning for my entire life, thank you very much."
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
"Goodness, no. I try not to think about things like that."
8. Name three things you and the person who responded before you appear to have in common.
"Well I don't really know him, but we both seem to get good grades in school - I've nearly perfect O's, too. We're also both third-years, though he seems to be a few months my elder. And I almost set the Ravenclaw common room on fire once too! Seems to be a motif around here, don't you think?"
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
"All the people in it, of course! Dee and Aaron and my entire Quidditch team, my family, all of my friends... even the people I don't know at Hogwarts make life more interesting every day. It's a fantastic life to be living, really."
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
"O-oh. Well. I suppose I'd ask my parents to be home more often. I love Dinny and Becca, of course, but one can only get so much love from house-elves that aren't related to you... there's got to be something special about being raised by your parents. That's what I've heard, anyway."
11. Take a paragraph or two and tell your life story in as much detail as possible.
"Er, it's not really all that interesting before I got to Hogwarts. Born and raised in Welwyn Garden City - that's just outside London. I mostly live in a Muggle community - in fact, I think we're the only magical family in the neighborhood, at least that I know of - but I wasn't allowed to play with Muggles growing up, so I really don't know any of my neighbours. Mother and Father mostly work, so Dinny and Becca - those are the house-elves - raised me, more or less. Dinny retired when I was nine. Goodness, that's five years ago now, isn't it?

And... well... not much else til Hogwarts, like I said, but now there's a lot going on! I was Sorted into Ravenclaw, tried to make friends but mostly kept to my books for a few years. I started playing as Keeper for the Ravenclaw Quidditch team last year, and that's what really broke me onto the Hogwarts social scene, I suppose. I've won two games now, both this year - exciting, right? Oh, and I have a best friend and a boyfriend now! Dee and Aaron. Don't know where I'd be without them, really. I adore them both to bits."
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability (NOT a super power, like, a regular human ability), what would it be?
"Would the ability to understand Potions instructions be a possibility? I'm rubbish at Potions, truly. I'd love to know how people effortlessly pass that class."
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
"Well, now, that's not very fun, is it? Part of the whole reason life is worth living is that you never know what's going to come next. I do like Divination, somewhat, but you never know if everything you predict is perfectly... er... right. I like living the way I'm living now, thank you very much."
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
"Well, I've dreamt of winning a Quidditch Cup. We're hopefully on track to do that this year, if all goes well! Hey, er, do you have a stick or branch or wooden door or table I could knock on...? Just in case?"
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
"Right now, it's having (mostly) Outstanding grades. But if we win the Quidditch Cup, well, I think you know what it'll be."
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
"Someone wanting to spend time with me, even if it's just sitting round and talking. I love talking. Dunno if you can tell."
17. What is your most treasured memory?
"First time I ever won a Quidditch game was pretty memorable. Well, I mean, it would've been memorable if I didn't get knocked off my broom twenty seconds before we got the Snitch. I passed out on my way down, but waking up in the Hospital Wing to the news that we'd won? Yes, I'll carry that memory with me for a long, long time."
18. What is your most terrible memory?
"Goodness, you're really going to make me relive my... ugh... boggart? No thank you, please. That day was awful enough."
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
"One year? Why, fifteen's too young to die! But... well, I don't suppose I would. Like I've said, I rather like the way my life is now. Except for I ought to tell Mother I love her more often. But I'll get right on that!"
20. What does friendship mean to you?
"I think I've pretty much already answered this, but it means a lot to me, especially when you can just sort of exist in the same space as your friends. Dunno where I'd be without all my mates. They're fantastic people, one and all, and I certainly wouldn't be this same Aly without them!"
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
"Now, hold your hippogriffs! I've only been dating Aaron since late March, I can't go throwing round those kinds of words yet. Check back with me in a year, all right?"
22. Name three things your character would have a hard time admitting that they like about themselves.
"I - what do you mean, a hard time? I rather like myself! Except for when I get anxious and start worrying over the tiniest of little things. But... I suppose even that's useful, because it's better to overthink than underthink. Honestly, I can't much think of anything else. I'm rather happy with where I am right now, you know. 'Case I haven't said that enough."
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
"Well, warm maybe isn't the best word to describe it? Father and I get along splendidly, of course. It's like he's still a kid sometimes - Mother says he never grew up properly, and I only think she's joking 'round half the time. Mother herself, on the other hand... well... she's not fuzzy and happy, I'll tell you that much."
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
"Well, er, that's an... interesting... question..."
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"I love her, of course. But we get on each other's nerves sometimes. Mostly about grades. And Quidditch. And boys. All right, I suppose it's just her getting on mine. Though by the way she talks sometimes, I'm not so sure I'm not always on her nerves, too. But I love her lots."
25. Make three true “we” statements about you and your character's best friend.
"@Dealla Prince, hear that? They want to hear about us! Erm, we both have a habit of accidentally missing meals because we oversleep. (Dee, don't try to tell me that's not true. It's true.) We are both dating Hufflepuff boys, who are also coincidentally best friends... though I'm still not sure if Jack really exists, Dee. You have to prove that to me sometime. And... hmmm... oh! We both have that Campaigner personality thingy. I dunno. It's a Muggle thing, I guess."
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
"I wish I had someone with whom I could share... my birthday! Don't get me wrong, having a birthday to myself is great. But I do think that it would be positively amazing to have a birthday twin. Two birthday Cauldron Cakes are better than one, after all!"
27. If you were going to become a close friend with the person who posted before you, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
"Do you like flowers, Caelan? Because I do! I like them a whole lot, and I consider the language of flowers to be quite important. I feel like it would be fun for friends to learn the language, too, so we could communicate in flowers... that'd be rather complex, though, now that I'm thinking about it..."
28. Tell the person who posted before you what you like about them (if your characters don't know each other IC, you can say something you OoC like about the character before you); be very honest.
Well, Aly and Caelan don't know each other, but I love how well-rounded Caelan is! It seems like he has a lot of diverse interests, hobbies, and thoughts, which is something I personally struggle with when writing Aly - I feel like she can be pretty 2D sometimes, so I respect how well you've fleshed Caelan out. @Caelan Stewart
29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
"Merlin... I know I mentioned this already, but that one time when I nearly set the Ravenclaw commons on fire? Let me tell you, I've never seen a gaggle of Eagles all turn and yell at the same person so quickly! I had no idea that the common room is prone to catching alight. I'll never cast that spell in the commons again, I swear!"
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
"I think I last cried on my birthday, though I can't think of a time recently when I've cried in front of someone else. Let's just say that I take the exact minute I was born very seriously, and they ended up happy tears, so I'm not complaining!"
31. What's something you like about your worst enemy?
"See, now, I don't really have an enemy. I pride myself on getting along with just about the whole school. I suppose that I don't like that one person who stomps on flowers on the grounds, but I haven't quite figured out who that is yet. I suppose... they have great taste in flowers, even if they do crush them! Seriously, though. If you are that person. Come talk to me. I want to have words with you."
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
"The purposeful destruction of beautiful things. I'm talking about you, flower-stomper. Er, in all seriousness, though, I don't understand how people can joke about Muggles being stupid or useless or anything of the sort. I think Muggle culture is fascinating, and looking down on them is just something I will never understand."
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
"It's been quite a bit since I told Mother I loved her, except in sign-offs of letters. Maybe I'll go write her a letter right now..."
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
"The flowerpots on my sill. They're alive too, you know! I would hate to think of my beloved, cared-for flowers burning a fiery death when all they wish to do is bloom..."
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most upsetting? Why?
"Well, I know we're not related, really, but I would hate to lose Dinny or Becca. They practically raised me while my parents worked, you know. I love my parents to pieces, but as horrid as it sounds, I think I'd get more used to not having them around than I would Becca or Dinny."
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"These responses aren't published anywhere, right?"
36. Give advice to the person above you for their problem in question 36. Then, state your own problem for the person who posts after you to give you advice on.
"Well, I'm not the kind of person who believes in hiding things from your parents. Unless it's boyfriends. Or bad grades. Or secret ball-planning committees. Okay, er, perhaps I do do that... sometimes. If you really think that telling her would hurt your relationship with her, I'd probably say to keep it from her as long as you feel comfortable hiding that? But I'll tell you, the longer I hide things from my parents, the scarier it gets that they'll find out. Dunno what I'll ever do if Mother and Father find out about Aaron. Really just Mother, though. I don't think Father would care."
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"As for my own problems, I really need to stop overthinking things, because it really only ever lands me in trouble with my own thoughts or with other people. Got any advice for that?"

gen1 Aly Salinger || gen1 iNPC Manu Macedo || gen2 Kahira Valerian || staff Aulis Vorozheykin
36 Questions to Get to Know You IC
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
I would choose her long-lost friend Charles from primary school. I have not met him since she entered Hogwarts so I want to know how he is doing now and remain in contact with him.
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
Nope, I do not want to lose privacy. Being seen everywhere I go is not good. I would like to be invisible sometimes.
3. Before making a telephone call/wizarding equivalent, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
No, because I never know how the person from the other side will respond and I have to respond to that person!
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
Sleep until I am completely awake, then go out to participate in different activities with my friends. Enjoy a variety of food in the great hall, and spend the afternoon viewing the beautiful scenery in Hogwarts, before returning to my dorm to take a rest.
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
I could not remember the exact time. I sing to myself unconsciously.
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
The mind, because I can better relate to my children and my grandchildren.
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
Not really. I wish I can just die peacefully when I get old, if possible.
8. Name three things you and the person who responded before you appear to have in common.
We both appear to love nature and animals. We both do not enjoy getting famous. We both do not have enemies.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
Being friends with these amazing people in Hogwarts such as @Cara Smalley and @Noah Jupe.
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
Maybe I could go back and live in China, where my parents are from. London is pretty good by the way, but I want to experience a different environment.
11. Take a paragraph or two and tell your life story in as much detail as possible.
I was born on Dec 19th, 2009 in London, England to muggle Chinese parents Gary Su(a manager of an architectural company) and Yvette Yu(a housewife who used to be an architect) who immigrated to England to find better jobs and experience a brand-new life. In other words, I am British-born Chinese. I also have a younger brother Kevin Su who is 7 years younger than me. Sometimes a bit annoying, but a pretty adorable boy, I shell say. I went to an international primary school before Hogwarts and am bilingual, and fluent in both Chinese and English. My best friend in primary school was Charles, a boy talented in chess. I don`t play chess but my brother is beginning to learn that so we kind of have the same language. On my eleventh birthday in December 2020, I received an owl announcing that I have been accepted by Hogwarts. A brand new life path was in front of me and how here I am, a confident second-year Hufflepuff who enjoys hanging out with friends and having fun on campus.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability (NOT a superpower, like, a regular human ability), what would it be?
I would like to know how to cook so that I can make my favorite food even when I am alone.
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
Maybe the truth about myself, because I can only see a few things about myself and I want to know more.
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
Complete more errands. I always miss the date for those errands due to other issues, when I checked them, they are already closed.
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
Being accepted by Hogwarts.
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
Mutual respect. We should respect each other's opinions even when we disagree with each other. We should also respect each other as a person and don`t laugh at or insult each other.
17. What is your most treasured memory?
The relationship between my and my long-lost friend Charles. He is my only friend in my old primary school and an indeed amazing boy.
18. What is your most terrible memory?
I got poor grades for my homework and was criticized by the teachers.
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
I would like to stay the same way, I am pretty satisfied with the way I am living and do not think that fact will affect the way I am living, so why do I have to change?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
Having someone to talk to, to have fun with, and share happiness and pain with. Having mutual respect for someone and being turbulent to each other`s mistakes.
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
There is love and affection between me and my family, as well as love between me and my friends.
22. Name three things your character would have a hard time admitting that they like about themselves.
I like myself being a little bit naughty at times and playing some tricks on others. I like myself leaving my homework until I am in the mood of doing it. I like talking to myself out loud when I am alone.
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
I would say we are pretty close, we help and support each other though there are arguments and disagreements between us at times. I do not think it is happier, I would say my childhood is as happy as most people.
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
It is better than my relationship with my father. Because my mother can spend more time with me and my brother compared to my father, who is always busy with work, and my mother is also more patient and would not mind me complaining about problems in school.
25. Make three true “we” statements about you and your character's best friend
We were each other`s quill pal and write to each other frequently.
We haven`t met each other in real life.
We both participated in clubs such as Golden Explorers and Musicians Corners.
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
I wish I had someone with whom I could share my secret life stories, ensuring that person won`t tell anyone else or react negatively to it.
27. If you were going to become a close friend with the person who posted before you, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
I may not be your perfect friend and I have several shortcomings, but please respect and be turbulent with me. Feel free to chat and do interesting things with me.
28. Tell the person who posted before you what you like about them (if your characters don't know each other IC, you can say something you OOC like about the character before you); be very honest.
Reducio
We are strangers IC, so I will say my OOC impressions

I really like you being honest with yourself, saying you are shy but cannot stop talking once started. I also like your love for nature and animals.
29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
I was singing a song out loud unconsciously while having a bath and was found out by my roommates. They laughed at me and I felt very embarrassed.
30. When was your last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
I rarely cry around others. By myself? When I could not help missing my parents in the dorm.
31. What's something you like about your worst enemy?
I do not have enemies.
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Someone`s shortcomings, physical or mental diseases, and mistakes, unless you are sure they are not insulted.
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
Things I wish to happen after I pass away. If I do not leave any final wishes, I think it is more likely that I was forgotten quickly.
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
I would save my bag containing my school belongings. I still have to go to Hogwarts even though my house caught on fire and I do not want to upset my professors by saying I do not hand in homework because my bag was burned!
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most upsetting? Why?
My grandfather. He passed away at age 54 when I was seven due to illnesses caused by smoking. He could have lived longer if he smoke less. I should not smoke when I grow up.
36. Give advice to the person above you for their problem in question 36. Then, state your own problem for the person who posts after you to give you advice on.
I understand your situation. It is difficult to have long-lasting friendships as it is normal to quarrel between close friends. What you could do is try to support and respect each other whatever happens. When quarrels happen, both of you should try to step back and try to cope with it when you are both calm. It takes time but I hope my suggestion works well.
My problem is how to empathize with others? I am really bad at standing in other people's shoes and trying to understand what others are feeling.

Rita Su - Hufflepuff Andy Menton - Ilvermorny, Thunderbird
Color code: Rita: #560edd Andy: #c40e0e
Rita`s Ency Andy`s Ency Shop
36 Questions to Get to Know You IC
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
Anyone? Probably... Twilight Sparkle. Do they have to be real?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
I wanna be so famous you can't go anywhere without seeing my face. Everyone will know my name.
3. Before making a telephone call/wizarding equivalent, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Not really. I don't plan much.
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
Hanging out with my best friend. Petting my cat. Winning a bout (game of roller derby).
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
Probably this morning. I sing to myself while doing work.
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
Body. I don't think a lot.
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
Assassination.
8. Name three things you and the person who responded before you appear to have in common.
We both sing to ourselves subconsciously, don't rehearse phone calls, and are grateful for our friends.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
Good friends. People who pay attention to me.
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
I wish I had my dad, I guess.
11. Take a paragraph or two and tell your life story in as much detail as possible.
Uh, I was born in Dublin. My parents are named Vernon and Saoirse, and my dad was not a fan of the whole witch thing, so he left when he found out. My mom met this dude named Albert--gross--and they had a kid named Theresa. My grandparents on my mom's side love her, think she's amazing since she's pureblood and I'm not. Big whoop, I don't really care. Uh, I think Albert's got another kid? I'm really lost on the whole thing.

I'm totally telling my mom.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability (NOT a super power, like, a regular human ability), what would it be?
I wish I were... stronger. I've got some people I need to teach a lesson.
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
The future. I just want to know what happens and if anything ever gets better.
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
Not really. I do most things when I want to.
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
I won a really hard bout once! That was cool.
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
Someone actually liking me. Or, at least, pretending to.
17. What is your most treasured memory?
My flying lesson with June Selwyn. It went terribly and she ended up in the hospital wing, but it's the happiest I've felt in a hot minute.
18. What is your most terrible memory?
My dad split in the middle of the day. Didn't really even say "goodbye, Maggie", because I guess that's too hard.
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
I'd actually take control of my feelings. No point in hiding them anymore.
20. What does friendship mean to you?
It means always loving each other. Appreciating one another, helping, having a deep bond that nobody can break. Keeping secrets and keeping each other safe. Family.
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
I want to be loved. More than anything, I really do.
22. Name three things your character would have a hard time admitting that they like about themselves.
I like my laugh. I like the way that my face gets all red when I get complimented, it's not pathetic. I like mushy romantic things.
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
It was an average childhood. And I think my family's pretty cold right now. I love my mom and stuff, and I guess I love Tessa, but my stepdad's weird. And my grandparents and stuff don't really care for me. Not being a pureblood was a mistake, I guess.
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
It's alright. She spends most her time with Tessa, but Tessa's little so that makes sense, I guess. I miss her.
25. Make three true “we” statements about you and your character's best friend
We have a special path we take on walks outside.
We love sleepovers together.
We support each other endlessly.
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”
I wish I had someone with whom I could share my deepest desires.
27. If you were going to become a close friend with the person who posted before you, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
I'm a half-blood and I'm proud of it. Don't expect me to change. I like muggle things and muggle culture, and I won't get rid of it.
28. Tell the person who posted before you what you like about them (if your characters don't know each other IC, you can say something you OoC like about the character before you); be very honest.
We don't know each other, but I really like how determined they are to make the best of life and to always keep a positive outlook on things. It's really cool.
29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
Most my life is an embarrassing moment. I slapped Bubba McGarry, but I'm not embarrassed by that. Last week I tripped and fell down the staircase in front of my whole class, though.
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
Not recently. I don't cry with people, I feel weird and stiff. I cried in the prefect bathroom awhile ago.
31. What's something you like about your worst enemy?
Uh, nothing? ... he sure is assured, though. I guess I like that he has confidence in himself. Still sucks, though.
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Physical disability. I think I can joke about anything, but there's really nothing a person can do to change that.
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
I love you. I can't tell them that, though, because that would be totally weird. It would ruin everything.
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
Twilight Sparkle toy. I've had her for years. She's a safety blanket.
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most upsetting? Why?
My mom. I love her so, so much. She's been here through it all, and even though right now's tough, I know she's always done her best for me.
36. Give advice to the person above you for their problem in question 36. Then, state your own problem for the person who posts after you to give you advice on.
I understand your problem. I have a hard time with empathizing, mostly because I'm normally the one who's making a mess of things. I recommend just taking a step back and looking at their situation completely impartially, just to get a handle on what it is. Then try and think through what you'd do in the same situation.

I guess my problem is that I'm terrified of being rejected. I don't want to be cast aside or looked down upon, and so I can't open up.

I really value when people use violence for me, it's actually one of my love languages.