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Aw! I'm so sorry Kie! I hope you'll be able to take a much needed break this weekend. *hugs*Kiera Roseline wrote: 17 Jan 2025, 22:22 I feel like this is probably a really pointless thing, but it’s still kinda upsetting to me. The first thing is that I’m pretty sure the guy I like likes one of my friends, and I’ve liked him for yearssss. It just really sucks if it’s true, and all that. The other thing is that I TOTALLY FAILED my science test today. I’ve been studying so much but it was literally nothing like the practice test, and just overall really hard. I knew almost none of it at all, so basically my grade is how good I am at guessing. I have to go out tonight (sports practice) and I really don’t want to. Idk I just really wanna cry and even during the test I was trying not to. Sorry for the long, pointless rant but I just needed to get a few things out
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Ok well good news, I did really good today in practice:)
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That's great!
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Ohh Kie I’m so sorry! We’re all on your side, and you’re such an amazing person that one test is meaningless, remember that! Don’t be too hard on yourself, and if you just feel like taking a break do thatKiera Roseline wrote: 17 Jan 2025, 22:22 I feel like this is probably a really pointless thing, but it’s still kinda upsetting to me. The first thing is that I’m pretty sure the guy I like likes one of my friends, and I’ve liked him for yearssss. It just really sucks if it’s true, and all that. The other thing is that I TOTALLY FAILED my science test today. I’ve been studying so much but it was literally nothing like the practice test, and just overall really hard. I knew almost none of it at all, so basically my grade is how good I am at guessing. I have to go out tonight (sports practice) and I really don’t want to. Idk I just really wanna cry and even during the test I was trying not to. Sorry for the long, pointless rant but I just needed to get a few things out
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teenage drama at its finest lmao
been in an odd place the last few weeks (@ava winchet knows about this but i felt like sharing cause honestly i need advice / want to hear y'all's opinions -- peep @kim sato @colin mccoire@Lucian Mornstern
whenever you see this luci ik you havent been active@keith moore@Draven Mirador cause y'all are who i turn to for advise and to talk to )
ok - so last two weeks ago yesterday i was texted by one of the people i teach with at taekwondo. they were like uuuuh so this guy is gonna ask you out tomorrow, he wanted to at *one of the people we teach with's* b day party, but you left early cause you were sick
just wanted to give you a heads up etc
and i was like OMG like i guess i knew he kinda had a crush on me, but im not in a place for a relationship (he is also like the opposite of my type, still a good dude but not for me) and im focuing on my career etc
and we got to talking a little more and apparently most of the teenage boys i train with (and have since they all started.. im the student who has been training at the school the longest out of anyone) they like me/have crushes on me
which kinda not suprised but also very shocked because why me??
i have a feeling that guys like (at least these guys do, not speaking for all of yall) girls who (a) are nice (b) can kick the snot out of them (like me haha im the person my instructors send to take someone's ego down a notch as needed) and the only other person their age and my ability level - levels above them lmao - is my friend and she's dating someone already
anyways knowing this made me feel a bit weird haha because i dont like them back (there are like half a dozen of them lmao) (partially cause i like this guy from another school that i met at a tournament and i text with on occasion) (partially cause i am not in a place for a relationship and i am focusing on me and my family and my career)
like i see them all as friends and nothing more
and the guy did end up asking me out/saying he had a crush on me on thursday after class right before i left and (i think the person who told me let it slip that she had told me cause he knew) i turned him down as nicely as i could (he was expecting it, the person who told me and another person i teach with - both of whom are friends with him too - had kinda warned me that he'd be turned down
anways none of my family know (including my grandmother who trains with me) and i needed to tell someone else sooooo here we are lol
either owl me your thoughts or reply here thank youuuu
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I've never been in a relationship, and don't plan on being in one soon, so I can understand why you turned him down. You need to focus on you. Especially if you aren't ready to be in a relationship. A good person would wait for you to be ready before trying to ask you out or force you to go out with them. My advice is wait until you are ready. You did the right thing.Bailey Glade wrote: 21 Jan 2025, 17:34teenage drama at its finest lmao
been in an odd place the last few weeks (@ava winchet knows about this but i felt like sharing cause honestly i need advice / want to hear y'all's opinions -- peep @kim sato @colin mccoire@Lucian Mornstern
whenever you see this luci ik you havent been active@keith moore@Draven Mirador cause y'all are who i turn to for advise and to talk to )
ok - so last two weeks ago yesterday i was texted by one of the people i teach with at taekwondo. they were like uuuuh so this guy is gonna ask you out tomorrow, he wanted to at *one of the people we teach with's* b day party, but you left early cause you were sick
just wanted to give you a heads up etc
and i was like OMG like i guess i knew he kinda had a crush on me, but im not in a place for a relationship (he is also like the opposite of my type, still a good dude but not for me) and im focuing on my career etc
and we got to talking a little more and apparently most of the teenage boys i train with (and have since they all started.. im the student who has been training at the school the longest out of anyone) they like me/have crushes on me
which kinda not suprised but also very shocked because why me??
i have a feeling that guys like (at least these guys do, not speaking for all of yall) girls who (a) are nice (b) can kick the snot out of them (like me haha im the person my instructors send to take someone's ego down a notch as needed) and the only other person their age and my ability level - levels above them lmao - is my friend and she's dating someone already
anyways knowing this made me feel a bit weird haha because i dont like them back (there are like half a dozen of them lmao) (partially cause i like this guy from another school that i met at a tournament and i text with on occasion) (partially cause i am not in a place for a relationship and i am focusing on me and my family and my career)
like i see them all as friends and nothing more
and the guy did end up asking me out/saying he had a crush on me on thursday after class right before i left and (i think the person who told me let it slip that she had told me cause he knew) i turned him down as nicely as i could (he was expecting it, the person who told me and another person i teach with - both of whom are friends with him too - had kinda warned me that he'd be turned down
anways none of my family know (including my grandmother who trains with me) and i needed to tell someone else sooooo here we are lol
either owl me your thoughts or reply here thank youuuu
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Avery is completely right. You need to think about what you want, what your boundaries are and what your goals are. If you aren't ready to be in a relationship and don't like them back, don't be scared to tell them. Don't be afraid to stand firm with whatever boundaries and goals you may have, and always think of what you want in life. Don't let others manipulate you, you're much smarter than that, I can already tellBailey Glade wrote: 21 Jan 2025, 17:34teenage drama at its finest lmao
been in an odd place the last few weeks (@ava winchet knows about this but i felt like sharing cause honestly i need advice / want to hear y'all's opinions -- peep @kim sato @colin mccoire@Lucian Mornstern
whenever you see this luci ik you havent been active@keith moore@Draven Mirador cause y'all are who i turn to for advise and to talk to )
ok - so last two weeks ago yesterday i was texted by one of the people i teach with at taekwondo. they were like uuuuh so this guy is gonna ask you out tomorrow, he wanted to at *one of the people we teach with's* b day party, but you left early cause you were sick
just wanted to give you a heads up etc
and i was like OMG like i guess i knew he kinda had a crush on me, but im not in a place for a relationship (he is also like the opposite of my type, still a good dude but not for me) and im focuing on my career etc
and we got to talking a little more and apparently most of the teenage boys i train with (and have since they all started.. im the student who has been training at the school the longest out of anyone) they like me/have crushes on me
which kinda not suprised but also very shocked because why me??
i have a feeling that guys like (at least these guys do, not speaking for all of yall) girls who (a) are nice (b) can kick the snot out of them (like me haha im the person my instructors send to take someone's ego down a notch as needed) and the only other person their age and my ability level - levels above them lmao - is my friend and she's dating someone already
anyways knowing this made me feel a bit weird haha because i dont like them back (there are like half a dozen of them lmao) (partially cause i like this guy from another school that i met at a tournament and i text with on occasion) (partially cause i am not in a place for a relationship and i am focusing on me and my family and my career)
like i see them all as friends and nothing more
and the guy did end up asking me out/saying he had a crush on me on thursday after class right before i left and (i think the person who told me let it slip that she had told me cause he knew) i turned him down as nicely as i could (he was expecting it, the person who told me and another person i teach with - both of whom are friends with him too - had kinda warned me that he'd be turned down
anways none of my family know (including my grandmother who trains with me) and i needed to tell someone else sooooo here we are lol
either owl me your thoughts or reply here thank youuuu
You did entirely the right thing, thinking of what is best for you. I can only encourage you to keep going as you have been, and if you need to talk to anyone we're all here for you.
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This is just my two cents, but if you don't like these losers, 'no' is a full sentence. '[bad word]' is an even better one.
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Honestly Bai, if you don’t want to date someone, state your boundaries and say no. If they were polite, speak politely. If they walk around with an attitude, respond the same way. This is your life @Bailey Glade, so you choose what to do with it. I look up to your decision!
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Bailey you are such a sweet heart! One of these days, some young man is going to be so lucky and so blessed to find you as his partner in life!
I can't really offer you any advice, except to keep your priorities straight, which you're doing. You've got your faith to back you up; you've got good goals set for yourself and you're able to prioritise things that are going on in your life. I wish I had all that going on at the time! I'm totally neither surprised nor shocked that boys like you! I'm also not at all surprised at how maturely you handled this situation. You've got a supportive and caring friend who alerted both of you to the situation and the result was no needless drama!
Bailey you are such a sweet heart! One of these days, some young man is going to be so lucky and so blessed to find you as his partner in life!
I can't really offer you any advice, except to keep your priorities straight, which you're doing. You've got your faith to back you up; you've got good goals set for yourself and you're able to prioritise things that are going on in your life. I wish I had all that going on at the time! I'm totally neither surprised nor shocked that boys like you! I'm also not at all surprised at how maturely you handled this situation. You've got a supportive and caring friend who alerted both of you to the situation and the result was no needless drama!
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