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y'all, i need some advice. so technically, my parents aren't allowing me to see my boyfriend this summer (I'm in my later teens so they shouldn't rly be doing this), but he and I have been meeting up in my neighbourhood and going on walks together. my parents found out about this and now they're really pissed at me. the reason they don't want me seeing him is because he doesn't come from a great background, but he's moved away from where he used to live and he's changed a lot. they never even knew him when he wasn't doing so great. but they know he comes from a bad place so they dislike him. (my parents are your typical republican, homophobic, gun-shooting, racist, redneck, Christian Americans, so they don't like to think that people can change and be good people if they come from bad places)
I don't know what to do, it's starting to get to the point where they just talk crap about him to my face.
what do y'all think I should do?

[quote]I wish I could help you out, but sadly, I can't, sorry Alex!

okay so I'm not the best person to give advice, I'm younger than you and my parent is very different. I definitely think your parents are in the wrong, like they shouldn't be doing that. I'd say it's probably easiest to try to ignore what they are saying and maybe even move out as soon as possible, hopefully you can find another way to meet him. I really hope things get better soon!

thanks sanqi and april!

RRRAAGH I'M UP WHAT'S A SLEEP CYCLE

Alexandria Clark wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 03:05 y'all, i need some advice. so technically, my parents aren't allowing me to see my boyfriend this summer (I'm in my later teens so they shouldn't rly be doing this), but he and I have been meeting up in my neighbourhood and going on walks together. my parents found out about this and now they're really pissed at me. the reason they don't want me seeing him is because he doesn't come from a great background, but he's moved away from where he used to live and he's changed a lot. they never even knew him when he wasn't doing so great. but they know he comes from a bad place so they dislike him. (my parents are your typical republican, homophobic, gun-shooting, racist, redneck, Christian Americans, so they don't like to think that people can change and be good people if they come from bad places)
I don't know what to do, it's starting to get to the point where they just talk crap about him to my face.
what do y'all think I should do?

Quote a(few) verse from bible, do your research , be more orthodox christian to them,Beat them at their own game.

Prat Pass wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:38 RRRAAGH I'M UP WHAT'S A SLEEP CYCLE

Well Wikipedia defines a sleep cycle as : the sleep cycle is an oscillation between the slow-wave and REM phases of sleep. It is sometimes called the ultradian sleep cycle, sleep–dream cycle, or REM-NREM cycle, to distinguish it from the circadian alternation between sleep and wakefulness. In humans, this cycle takes 70 to 110 minutes.

Aston Beckett wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:42

Prat Pass wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:38 RRRAAGH I'M UP WHAT'S A SLEEP CYCLE

Well Wikipedia defines a sleep cycle as : the sleep cycle is an oscillation between the slow-wave and REM phases of sleep. It is sometimes called the ultradian sleep cycle, sleep–dream cycle, or REM-NREM cycle, to distinguish it from the circadian alternation between sleep and wakefulness. In humans, this cycle takes 70 to 110 minutes.

This is why you got bullied

Prat Pass wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:46

Aston Beckett wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:42

Prat Pass wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:38 RRRAAGH I'M UP WHAT'S A SLEEP CYCLE

Well Wikipedia defines a sleep cycle as : the sleep cycle is an oscillation between the slow-wave and REM phases of sleep. It is sometimes called the ultradian sleep cycle, sleep–dream cycle, or REM-NREM cycle, to distinguish it from the circadian alternation between sleep and wakefulness. In humans, this cycle takes 70 to 110 minutes.

This is why you got bullied

Yeah, that, my personality, and maybe a hint of racism, I don't know

Aston Beckett wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:48

Prat Pass wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:46

Aston Beckett wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:42

Prat Pass wrote: 23 Jun 2024, 05:38 RRRAAGH I'M UP WHAT'S A SLEEP CYCLE

Well Wikipedia defines a sleep cycle as : the sleep cycle is an oscillation between the slow-wave and REM phases of sleep. It is sometimes called the ultradian sleep cycle, sleep–dream cycle, or REM-NREM cycle, to distinguish it from the circadian alternation between sleep and wakefulness. In humans, this cycle takes 70 to 110 minutes.

This is why you got bullied

Yeah, that, my personality, and maybe a hint of racism, I don't know

My condolences