24 Aug 2025, 07:33
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---- date. 18th of july 2025, around 9pm
location. the Hestridge estate, just outside of Canterbury
mentions. various gala guests, Esme's parents, the Murrey family
interacting with. @Tabitha Murrey
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Hand shake order is directly connected to social hierarchy — the host extends their hand, not the guest.

The few moments before a gala started were always a bit like flying.

When Esme got her first toy broom, she was four, and she hated it with a passion. She couldn't control it at all — and every time, before take off, there was a drop in her stomach, right before her feet lifted off the ground, and her control over her own movement was lost. It took many tumbles, scraped knees, and tears for her to actually figure out how to use one; and now, she could actually enjoy the occasional ride on a kids model with one of her cousins during visits and play dates.

When standing, do not lean against anything or needlessly increase or decrease distance between whomever you’re speaking to.

The minutes right before the first guest arrived at one of her parents’ many dinner parties, banquets, and galas felt similar. There was a lingering anxiety to the moment. Caterers and waiters were out of sight now, probably setting up the tables for the dining section of the evening, so sitting in the foyer, the entire house felt empty, even though Esme logically knew it was more full than usual; and soon, would be even fuller. Her parents were in the foyer, waiting to greet the first guests that were sure to flood in from the second the clock showed 9. Esme was still young enough that she wasn't expected to be there with them — and she was more than grateful for that.

Suit pants are only meant to crease once at the bottom, and a black suit should never be paired with brown shoes.

It was different than a toy broom, obviously. Esme wasn't a kid anymore. She understood what her parents expected of her during these formal events on a logical level; just like flying, she learned everything and anything she could. She’d read every savoir-vivre book she could find. She knew even if she did make a mistake, they would help her out — she'd never seen someone make a faux pas so bad that her father couldn't laugh it off or her mother couldn't elegantly brush past. Still, the anxiety lingered, and instead, she now found herself picking apart every single guest she’d talked to. Since nine sharp, guests had been flowing in, and her mind turned into a checklist. Whenever one of her parents gestured her over to introduce her to someone, within seconds she could pinpoint anything they were doing wrong.

It was routine, at this point — mildly mean, maybe, but also surprisingly calming. Helped with the drop in her stomach.

Using academic titles outside a professional setting is at best gaudy, and at worst condescending.

The aperitif had already started; maybe fifteen or twenty minutes ago. The gala was sure to be a successful one — celebrating the Hestridge family business’ expansion into Europe by hosting a charity fundraiser. Esme was lingering nearby her parents, watching as they invited in guest after guest. Always close enough to be beckoned over and introduced, to politely nod and answer any questions about her upcoming first year at Hogwarts; simultaneously far enough to look like she wasn’t following her parents around.

Esme, darling, come here,” she soon heard the voice of Eleonora, her mother, and obediently walked over to where her parents stood in a small group. Her father, Thomas, was there, smiling with the same practiced ease Esme had been learning to emulate for a good few years now. Next to him and her mother was another family by what she could tell — a man and a woman in their best evening wear, and what appeared to be their three kids, an older boy and two younger girls. As she stared, trying to remember what rule would apply to the shade of the woman’s lipstick, she was broken out of her musings by the sound of her name being said.

And this is our Esme,” her mother introduced, and Esme tried to mimic her father once again. “She just got her Hogwarts letter a few weeks ago. She’ll be going into her first year this September.” The pride in Eleonora’s voice was entirely undisguised. “Just like your Tabitha, no?

With a slight nudge and a squeeze on her shoulder from her father, she directed her attention to the taller of two girls in front of her. Her hair was a golden, honey blonde, and she looked about Esme’s age, a few centimeters taller, lanky in a similar way. Esme straightened her posture, chin lifting slightly as she met Tabitha’s gaze and extended her hand out. “It’s nice to meet you,” she said, in perhaps a tone slightly too serious for an eleven year old. “Thank you for coming.
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thales amaro.
second year castelobruxo quidditch.
katherine townsend.
professor of charms, former thunderbird.

28 Aug 2025, 23:42
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The yearly galas were always highly anticipated in the Murrey home. The early mornings began with a flurry of movement. Fluffy sparkling fabrics piled high on top of the house elves as they rushed from room to room. The clatter of makeup supplies toppling over on trays as they get whisked down the halls. Tabitha relished in the movement and the luxury of it all.

The approach to the venue, however, was always Tabitha's favorite part. The dress that had been chosen out for her was a light mauve with a soft sleek top and a frilly tulle skirt that bounced and shimmered with each step. Her hair was up in a complicated braid that had taken far too long to be pinned perfectly into place with dozens of sparkling clips wove in. And lastly, she had finally (finally!) convinced her mother to let her wear some makeup, so there was a sparkling blush lightly dotting her cheeks and a slivery eyeshadow to complete the look. She may not have been wearing a crown, but Tabitha certainly felt like royalty.

As the Murrey's scaled the steps to the gala, Tabitha fell in line with Jessabelle, "It will be so pretty inside, we're going to have a wonderful time," Tabitha's quietly muttered words seemed to soothe the jitters that her seven-year-old sister had clearly been dealing with. It would be her first gala not at home, though it was Tabitha's sixth or seventh.

Once they reached the entrance, Tabitha's parents were the first to be announced and they strode in side by side. Edison, her older brother, went next. Tabitha after him, as the middle child. Jessabelle would be last, but Tabitha was quickly swept up in the excitement, and her attention was tugged away, as she was welcomed into the room. The room was perfectly set, the proper amount of opulence that made that excited energy wash over Tabitha.

As much as she yearned to be set free from her parents to seek out the other girls her age and admire their dresses and talk eagerly of their lives ahead of them, she had to do her duties and stick with her parents for the numerous painful introductions. She kept the pleasant smile on her face and her back straight as she joined with her parents who had already found another family to greet. There was always an intricate dance to how her parents spoke at these sort of arrangements, and Tabitha learned to tolerate it for long enough that their attention was drawn otherwise and she could sneak away. Much like Edison already managed to.

"Congratulations to your Esme. Tabitha received her letter around the same time, as well," Tabitha felt the squeeze of her mothers hand wrapped around her arm and Tabitha smiled and nodded, unsure if there was a cue to say anything-- it was usually best to stay quiet, anyhow.

When the other girl, who Tabitha assumed was Esme, stepped forward to introduce herself, Tabitha's mother's hand dropped from her shoulder and Tabitha knew she was almost free to do as she pleased. Tabitha took Esme's hand with an equally polite smile. "It is nice to meet you as well. This place is gorgeous,"

By the manner that Esme already seemed to speak, Tabitha knew she had to match that tone. She was a bit out of experience compared to some of the others at events whom she had met who, apparently, had tutors specifically for prepping for these events. Maybe, after tonight, Tabitha would finally ask her mother for one. The last thing she wanted was to have a social blunder that stuck to her reputation. Though now wasn't the time to worry about such things, it was time to enjoy a pleasant night.
@Esme Hestridge

1 Sep 2025, 04:24
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As Tabitha stepped forward to return her handshake, Esme gave her a quick, perfunctory once over. Her attention was split by the small talk their parents were making, trying to make out what their expectations of the evening were quickly, with the hopes that would make the last of the stomach drop sensation pass. Once she heard Tabitha speak, though, the blonde had her full attention once again, Esme's polite expression returning in full force. “This place is gorgeous,” Tabitha said, causing Esme to lift her chin slightly in pride.

"Thank you," Esme replied.

Tabitha was right, of course — the lounge area was a sight to behold, extravagant yet full of class. A grand chandelier dominated the high ceiling room, magically suspended in mid air. Everything seemed to have a subtle sparkle to it, from the paintings on the walls, through the custom ordered flower centerpieces on each tall table, to the crystal champagne flutes every waiter had a tray of. Every detail was accounted for — nothing was left as is, her parents priding themselves on being extraordinary hosts. And considering this was just the aperitif, Esme knew there was much more to look forward to after dinner properly began.

More and more guests were slowly pouring in, everyone dressed in their very best attire. Esme took her time to properly scan the girl in front of her now. She watched for a second, taking notice of the way the eye shadow on Tabitha's eyelids glittered in time with the bejeweled pins holding up her delicate updo. It looked nice, she decided, turning her gaze to Tabitha's dress. Chiffon layered upon itself, creating a poofy skirt that looked almost like cupcake icing, piped on in delicate mauve ruffles. “I like your dress,” she complimented, almost out of habit, her smile unmoving, not daring to disappear from her face. It wasn't exactly Esme's style, but it suited the occasion well enough; more than some other disasters she'd seen at black tie events, anyway.

Esme's own dress was satin — the colors shifting and shimmering slightly under the the chandelier lights, making it looked like the fabric flowed endlessly with every movement. It was a stormy blue version of her mother's own deep navy dress, also floor length, with the same off the shoulder neckline. Small silver and diamond studs decorated Esme's ears, along with a matching pendant around her neck, both a gift her grandmother had given her for her most recent birthday. Her hair was loose, though with a matching satin bow clip in the back. The pale blonde locks cascaded down her shoulders, freshly styled and lightly curled at the ends, especially for the occasion.

Since more guests were entering the room, they would need to be properly greeted by the hosts; so as the Murreys slowly began to split up and leave the circle to mingle with other guests, Esme’s mother ducked slightly to speak. “Esme, dear,” she said in a warm tone, gently patting Esme on the back before straightening herself, “how about you and Tabitha go and play, yes?

Eleonora smiled down at her daughter and the young Murrey girl before walking off to join her husband in greeting another family. Esme mimicked the expression, nodding politely. “Come, follow me,” she said, turning around and beginning to walk deeper into the lounge with a measured pace. She didn't turn back to look if Tabitha was indeed following, moving with a practiced confidence. It seemed both entirely natural and yet almost stiff — like she was so used to practicing her posture, walking with an entirely straight back became second nature.

Esme walked forward for a few moments, keeping her gait slow. The walk through the lounge was thought out; she'd seen her mother do the same thing before with at other events, and figured it would be a good way to start the night. One, it would let the other girl take in the decor, the elegance that emanated from the space — and two, it just so happened to give Esme enough time to control the very last remnants of her nerves and steel herself for the night of socializing ahead. She soon approached the cocktail hour tables, looking out for the one that she knew would have non alcoholic drinks. She grabbed two glasses of fruit infused sparkling water with a mint garnish, handing one to Tabitha.

So,” Esme started, making sure to maintain eye contact with the other girl, “are you excited about going to Hogwarts?” She had to remind herself to blink, leaning in and lowering her tone to sound more friendly — conspiratory, almost — as she took a sip of her drink. “Do you have a house you're hoping to get sorted into?

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thales amaro.
second year castelobruxo quidditch.
katherine townsend.
professor of charms, former thunderbird.

6 Sep 2025, 20:19
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Tabitha came to the conclusion that this girl, Esme, was particularly difficult to read. She knew that she didn't have the same skills as her mother or her aunt when it came to determining someone's intent or emotions, but Esme proved to be exceptionally difficult to know anything about. She had that same practiced grace that Tabitha had seen in plenty of other Pureblood children. But there was not much showing through the cracks. There was an element to the way that Esme looked Tabitha over that she wasn't sure was genuinely getting to know her or some sort of critic about some facet of Tabitha's appearance. Her own nervousness slipped as she ran her hands along the tulle of her skirt once before clasping them in front of her once more.

Thankfully the moment of appraisal was short lived as Tabitha's compliment on the space seemed to lift Esme's mood. It hadn't been an empty compliment. The place was, indeed, incredible. Though Tabitha couldn't recall any event which she had attended that hadn't been incredible.

When Esme's gaze returned to Tabitha, she internally scrambled for one of the conversation topics that her mother had briefed her with. The location, the nature of the event, moments in life to be proud of, moments in life to look forward to. Those were the safest. Before Tabitha could blurt out something off topic, Esme returned the attention to her attire.

"Oh, thank you," A bright smile worked it's way to overshadow the polite one she had donned. She gave a small dip, not quite a curtsey, to show how the fabric seemed to bounce and shimmer in the light at once. She seemed to delight in it with a childlike honesty.

Before she got too caught up in herself, Tabitha gave Esme's outfit a look over as well, "I love the color of your dress. . . and the shimmer," The last part seemed to be a rushed add-on, feeling that the compliment wasn't good enough. Her attention as then brought to the pendant around her neck and Tabitha touched her own collarbone, "And your necklace, it's beautiful,"

Esme's mother stepped in for a moment and Tabitha quickly stopped talking. Her polite attitude resumed full force with that small measured smile. When Esme started walking, Tabitha was quick to follow. Tabitha saw the grace and poise that Esme strode with and attempted to mimic it, though she didn't nearly have that same effortlessness about it.

Tabitha took the drink and gave it a smell and a quick taste, smiling her gratitude.

"I am very excited," Tabitha returned the phrase, these were topics she had practiced many times. "I'm not sure. I think it would be fun to be sorted into Gryffindor with my brother. Though I am sure it would be nice to get a break from him, as well," Her gaze drifted over the other guests, wondering what group he had found for himself. He was always so much better at making friends than she was.

"I would love to see the Hufflepuff Common Room, though," That seemed to be an afterthought. Though, by the not decisive nature of her replies, it was likely she had already known that was something she could say, "What about you?"
@Esme Hestridge

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As the minutes flowed and time passed by, it seemed Esme did not actually steel herself at all. She cursed her nerves: predictably, the anxiety had been for nothing, and was now slowly dissipating, as it always seemed to do. She sipped her drink, the taste of raspberry and lemon fresh on her tongue, undoing the last of the knots in her shoulders. Everything was going well, and she felt in control of her nerves once more — she was on home turf. Everything would be fine.

Besides, Tabitha was turning out to be quite agreeable. Not only that, she was just plain nice to be around, Esme decided. She continued to stare, shamelessly taking in every detail of Tabitha's presence. The way she glanced at every glittering surface in the room, the way her hand rose to her collar bone on instinct when she complimented Esme's jewelry, the way she brought the sparkling water up to her nose for a second before taking a sip. Every movement of hers carried a practiced politeness, of course, but also revealed plenty of a special kind of sincerity. The kind you couldn't just teach someone; unguarded and earnest, the kind Esme found herself now strangely envious of. More than that, she seemed to be genuinely interested in the small talk they were making, which was more than Esme could say for the majority of people she met at her parents’ events, for better or for worse.

Esme hummed quietly in acknowledgement of Tabitha's response, letting the silence linger between them for a moment. “Your brother is a Gryffindor? So is my cousin,” she finally said. “I suppose that that could be… fun, as you put it,” she nodded. Hopefully, she'd get to see her cousin at Hogwarts in a few months. Esme definitely didn’t fancy herself a gryffindor, but being housemates with Stella could, indeed, be nice. She hadn't spoken with her much about houses lately, though the same could be said for anything, really. Her cousin's time at Hogwarts so far had been… rocky, to say the least, so they haven't had a chance to meet in a good few months. Still, that was family business; decidedly nothing she wanted to burden Tabitha with.

And I’ve heard great things about the Slytherin common room, as well.” She thought back to all she heard — the stories and anectodes her aunt had told her over the past few months. Being able to see the squid in the Great Lake swim by the large common room windows, or getting to watch ducks dive through the murky water before classes. As picturesque as it sounded, it still wasn’t the house Esme was actually hoping to be sorted into.

I’ll probably be a Ravenclaw,” Esme said, her voice taking on a matter of fact tone. “My father was there when he was attending, so it only makes sense.

She ended the words with a subtle smile, chin lifted. Her tone was confident, like she was saying something that could only ever be obvious. It wasn’t that her father ever told Esme that expected his daughter to be a Ravenclaw, but frankly? She would have been surprised if she turned out to be anything else. From all the stories and anecdotes he told, which there was absolutely no shortage of, it sounded like the perfect place for her. A house full of intellectuals, people with aspirations of academic greatness, who enjoyed reading and logic. A tower for a common room, to be able to read by the moonlight, near enough the astronomy classroom for them to observe the stars, too — it was really the only house she’d ever imagined herself to soon be a part of.

Esme shook off her musings, returning to eye contact with Tabitha, a more genuine smile on her face now. Still subtle, but now relaxed.

Speaking of observing the stars… “What classes are you most looking forward to?” she asked, taking another sip. “Personally, I’m most excited about potions, of course. And transfiguration. Though I’ve been told it can be annoyingly difficult,” she permitted herself a soft chuckle. Everything was shaping up to be a perfectly pleasant and successful evening; and all before dinner had even started.

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thales amaro.
second year castelobruxo quidditch.
katherine townsend.
professor of charms, former thunderbird.