My mother would say, “That not what we taught you in this family”

And In my mind I’m just like “The hecc? What👏Do👏You👏Mean👏??? Love👏Cannot👏Be👏Taught”

Jane Victoria wrote: 10 Feb 2019, 01:58 My mother would say, “That not what we taught you in this family”

And In my mind I’m just like “The hecc? What👏Do👏You👏Mean👏??? Love👏Cannot👏Be👏Taught”

Wow. I definitely agree. My mother would also say it’s a phase. Well... I had a crush on a girl in first grade. It wasn’t serious by any means, but... really. I don’t think sexuality is a “phase”.


Sorry if I accidentally pointed all the attention to myself. I hate doing that. It’s not just my problems we should pay attention to; it’s everyone’s. Good luck with getting through whatever problems you all are going through, and thank you all for supporting me through mine.

My formula of getting through life is: Vent art+ Text my closest friend very often+ cry a lot = survival 

Jane Victoria wrote: 10 Feb 2019, 01:58 My mother would say, “That not what we taught you in this family”

And In my mind I’m just like “The hecc? What👏Do👏You👏Mean👏??? Love👏Cannot👏Be👏Taught”

Ughhh I can relate. My parents are super religious and they can't get their heads out of the clouds. I believe in God too but I think we can love whoever we want.

Also, I know this isn't relevant but can someone explain to me how to like add friends and send owls/messages to others? Also, how do you advance from one year to the next? Lastly, how do you date people in the game? How do I find someone that is interested? Thanks!

Jane Victoria wrote: 10 Feb 2019, 02:48 My formula of getting through life is: Vent art+ Text my closest friend very often+ cry a lot = survival 

My goodness Jane, we’re are the books in the equation?

Adrian Birch wrote: Also, I know this isn't relevant but can someone explain to me how to like add friends and send owls/messages to others? Also, how do you advance from one year to the next? Lastly, how do you date people in the game? How do I find someone that is interested? Thanks!

Well you can't add friends and on the top right corner you will see a mail envelope, click that, and next to "Owls received" there is a pencil looking thing that's how you write an owl. You advance from one year to the next by doing the needed amount of homework like complete one subject fully on your homework and stay for the needed time for that. You date people in game by asking them of course it's just normal and on your encyclopedia you can put your relationship with them or not. Oh and Here you can request rp partners for romance (light of course you're eleven) or just try to get friends/enemies.

Hi everyone! I'd like to join   Eleanor's a little angsty bisexual bean.

I'd love to join. I'm bisexual and having a little trouble trying to tell my friends. It could really use some help on introducing them to my boyfriend as well.

ALRIGHT GUYS GALS AND NB PALS LISTEN THE HECK UP (i'm not allowed to swear ;-;)
Take it from a gay Ftm trans male with mildly accepting parents and extremely homophobic school environments. 
Even though I'm pretty decently passing now and whatnot (I've been out for a year or so now) There are some things that never change. These wonderful things areeeeee

[li]Parents still mess up and call me deadname[/li]
[li]People still know you from years before and deadname you[/li]
[li]People still misgender you[/li]
[li]People will still make the dumb comments of "lmao so you have a bussy???"[/li]

And other lovely things! Fun, right? 
HOWEVER.
I can tell you, I have never been happier being out and being me. Sure I still haven't found a partner yet, but I don't mind too much. There are people who will stick by you. There are people that will leave you. And there will be people who don't understand. But being you is honestly the best feeling ever. So if you can, put aside your fears and just be you. 
Now I understand it's not that easy for some people. 
Some people are struggling with homophobic parents and it would threaten their safety to come out. So I'll tell you something different then.
I know this probably isn't what you want to hear. It never is. But from experience, it gets better. You move out. You dress the way you want. But you have to make it that far first. Life is good, but you have to give it a chance. 

ANYHOW.

As for the coming out, that's different for everyone. But I can tell you, don't just say it and run like I did (It's sucky for both sides, and you'll regret it) Sit them down and say it. Give them a chance to process. 

Sad things aside, Stay safe my beautiful beans. Feel free to owl me if you need/want.

-Bane