8 Apr 2026, 16:23
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I had a crush on a homophobic boy.. someone I considered a friend of mine. You know, even if he was with different friend groups, and was homophobic, he still acknowledged that I was gay, even if I never revealed that I liked him.. but we did start drifting apart (a little faster than I wish...) after the rumors my senior year that basically hurt me so badly, and I'm assuming that despite him never mentioning it, that someone told him that I had a crush on him. He still didn't partake in the rumors, honestly. Even if he had a problematic side, he was still a decent friend. A better one than my others.

In my mind and in my car, we can't rewind, we've gone too far. (Video Killed The Radio Star - The Buggles)
Clark

8 Apr 2026, 16:26
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Vladislav Liam Gunther wrote: 8 Apr 2026, 16:23 I had a crush on a homophobic boy.. someone I considered a friend of mine. You know, even if he was with different friend groups, and was homophobic, he still acknowledged that I was gay, even if I never revealed that I liked him.. but we did start drifting apart (a little faster than I wish...) after the rumors my senior year that basically hurt me so badly, and I'm assuming that despite him never mentioning it, that someone told him that I had a crush on him. He still didn't partake in the rumors, honestly. Even if he had a problematic side, he was still a decent friend. A better one than my others.
What rumours

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8 Apr 2026, 16:27
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Vladislav Liam Gunther wrote: 8 Apr 2026, 16:23 I had a crush on a homophobic boy.. someone I considered a friend of mine. You know, even if he was with different friend groups, and was homophobic, he still acknowledged that I was gay, even if I never revealed that I liked him.. but we did start drifting apart (a little faster than I wish...) after the rumors my senior year that basically hurt me so badly, and I'm assuming that despite him never mentioning it, that someone told him that I had a crush on him. He still didn't partake in the rumors, honestly. Even if he had a problematic side, he was still a decent friend. A better one than my others.
People suck man. There's no reason to spread rumors about someone, that's just showing how much of a terrible person you are. At least he's a good friend

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8 Apr 2026, 16:42
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There were reallllllllyyyyy bad rumors that they came up with about me- things that CAN get you arrested, some of the rumors are incredibly graphic and I don't want to repeat them here, and it all started with the fact that I OFFERED TO HELP SOMEONE write their little paragraph bio that they refused to write because "he hate musical theater and only joined for choir so he's not doing the musical theater assignments and will only do things for choir." And after me offering, it started with him talking crap about me in snapchat and instagram dms, then it became a schoolwide thing where people were talking crap about me "behind my back" and then when I first heard about it, after them blasting me all over snapchat and instagram for the things that they came up with, I heard that more people were involved in coming up with rumors that THEY LATER CONFESSED WERE FALSE >C

Anyways I felt broken for a long time. I even changed my class my last semester of my senior year and didn't want to do theater again if the people that were a part of all that, that did hte most damage to me, were going to be involved. I had the theater teacher literally beg me to join back, and so I did, but I was so anxious for months and couldn't look anyone in the eye because of how badly they hurt me. I avoided my 'best' friend (bro literally told rumors and lies just to be in with a different friend group rather than to be a decent and honest person.) for months and even after graduation, blocking his number as well.

I remember snapping in the middle of my theater production at the ones who hurt me because we all were in the middle of a 'i forgot my line' moment in that scene and after a second I just spoke to break the peace and it turned out I had snapped and I yelled at each of them, of course, in character and whatever, but I hurt so bad.

So..
Plus with Clue also with snapping, they hated that I knew more about a dead body than they did. Because I kept proposing some ideas to make it a little more realistic (because I don't like cartoonish "deaths" or anything because it seems like a try hard thing.

So yeah anyways. Some of it was incredibly graphic, but they later confessed that it was false, others were partial truths but they manipulated it so it was in fact false and not the complete truth. If that makes sense? Most of them were false.

But I feel like theater kids find someone to bully every semester because if they can't find someone to pick on, they're bored or whatever. The person that was bullied before I was was a fantastic singer in choir, a great actor, and a daughter of a police officer. I'm the grandson to a former lieutenant, I can act, but I cannot sing.

But anyways. Yeah.

In my mind and in my car, we can't rewind, we've gone too far. (Video Killed The Radio Star - The Buggles)
Clark

8 Apr 2026, 16:45
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Vladislav Liam Gunther wrote: 8 Apr 2026, 16:42 There were reallllllllyyyyy bad rumors that they came up with about me- things that CAN get you arrested, some of the rumors are incredibly graphic and I don't want to repeat them here, and it all started with the fact that I OFFERED TO HELP SOMEONE write their little paragraph bio that they refused to write because "he hate musical theater and only joined for choir so he's not doing the musical theater assignments and will only do things for choir." And after me offering, it started with him talking crap about me in snapchat and instagram dms, then it became a schoolwide thing where people were talking crap about me "behind my back" and then when I first heard about it, after them blasting me all over snapchat and instagram for the things that they came up with, I heard that more people were involved in coming up with rumors that THEY LATER CONFESSED WERE FALSE >C

Anyways I felt broken for a long time. I even changed my class my last semester of my senior year and didn't want to do theater again if the people that were a part of all that, that did hte most damage to me, were going to be involved. I had the theater teacher literally beg me to join back, and so I did, but I was so anxious for months and couldn't look anyone in the eye because of how badly they hurt me. I avoided my 'best' friend (bro literally told rumors and lies just to be in with a different friend group rather than to be a decent and honest person.) for months and even after graduation, blocking his number as well.

I remember snapping in the middle of my theater production at the ones who hurt me because we all were in the middle of a 'i forgot my line' moment in that scene and after a second I just spoke to break the peace and it turned out I had snapped and I yelled at each of them, of course, in character and whatever, but I hurt so bad.

So..
Plus with Clue also with snapping, they hated that I knew more about a dead body than they did. Because I kept proposing some ideas to make it a little more realistic (because I don't like cartoonish "deaths" or anything because it seems like a try hard thing.

So yeah anyways. Some of it was incredibly graphic, but they later confessed that it was false, others were partial truths but they manipulated it so it was in fact false and not the complete truth. If that makes sense? Most of them were false.

But I feel like theater kids find someone to bully every semester because if they can't find someone to pick on, they're bored or whatever. The person that was bullied before I was was a fantastic singer in choir, a great actor, and a daughter of a police officer. I'm the grandson to a former lieutenant, I can act, but I cannot sing.

But anyways. Yeah.


Ugh Thats terrible! I am so sorry you had to go through that! People really do just suck

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8 Apr 2026, 16:47
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What also sucks is my current best friend actually had a crush on that same guy for a while too >.> Now, she's engaged so I'm hoping that part of her life is over completely and I won't ever have to see him again.

In my mind and in my car, we can't rewind, we've gone too far. (Video Killed The Radio Star - The Buggles)
Clark

8 Apr 2026, 16:48
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Have you talked to him since then?

I hope its over for you too <3 If ya need to talk you could always owl me <3

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8 Apr 2026, 16:48
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Vladislav Liam Gunther wrote: 8 Apr 2026, 16:42 There were reallllllllyyyyy bad rumors that they came up with about me- things that CAN get you arrested, some of the rumors are incredibly graphic and I don't want to repeat them here, and it all started with the fact that I OFFERED TO HELP SOMEONE write their little paragraph bio that they refused to write because "he hate musical theater and only joined for choir so he's not doing the musical theater assignments and will only do things for choir." And after me offering, it started with him talking crap about me in snapchat and instagram dms, then it became a schoolwide thing where people were talking crap about me "behind my back" and then when I first heard about it, after them blasting me all over snapchat and instagram for the things that they came up with, I heard that more people were involved in coming up with rumors that THEY LATER CONFESSED WERE FALSE >C

Anyways I felt broken for a long time. I even changed my class my last semester of my senior year and didn't want to do theater again if the people that were a part of all that, that did hte most damage to me, were going to be involved. I had the theater teacher literally beg me to join back, and so I did, but I was so anxious for months and couldn't look anyone in the eye because of how badly they hurt me. I avoided my 'best' friend (bro literally told rumors and lies just to be in with a different friend group rather than to be a decent and honest person.) for months and even after graduation, blocking his number as well.

I remember snapping in the middle of my theater production at the ones who hurt me because we all were in the middle of a 'i forgot my line' moment in that scene and after a second I just spoke to break the peace and it turned out I had snapped and I yelled at each of them, of course, in character and whatever, but I hurt so bad.

So..
Plus with Clue also with snapping, they hated that I knew more about a dead body than they did. Because I kept proposing some ideas to make it a little more realistic (because I don't like cartoonish "deaths" or anything because it seems like a try hard thing.

So yeah anyways. Some of it was incredibly graphic, but they later confessed that it was false, others were partial truths but they manipulated it so it was in fact false and not the complete truth. If that makes sense? Most of them were false.

But I feel like theater kids find someone to bully every semester because if they can't find someone to pick on, they're bored or whatever. The person that was bullied before I was was a fantastic singer in choir, a great actor, and a daughter of a police officer. I'm the grandson to a former lieutenant, I can act, but I cannot sing.

But anyways. Yeah.


Yeah it’s bad when it feels like the entire class is against you and as well as the Theatre kids also the football kids are the same at my school

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8 Apr 2026, 16:53
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Vladislav Liam Gunther wrote: 8 Apr 2026, 16:42 There were reallllllllyyyyy bad rumors that they came up with about me- things that CAN get you arrested, some of the rumors are incredibly graphic and I don't want to repeat them here, and it all started with the fact that I OFFERED TO HELP SOMEONE write their little paragraph bio that they refused to write because "he hate musical theater and only joined for choir so he's not doing the musical theater assignments and will only do things for choir." And after me offering, it started with him talking crap about me in snapchat and instagram dms, then it became a schoolwide thing where people were talking crap about me "behind my back" and then when I first heard about it, after them blasting me all over snapchat and instagram for the things that they came up with, I heard that more people were involved in coming up with rumors that THEY LATER CONFESSED WERE FALSE >C

Anyways I felt broken for a long time. I even changed my class my last semester of my senior year and didn't want to do theater again if the people that were a part of all that, that did hte most damage to me, were going to be involved. I had the theater teacher literally beg me to join back, and so I did, but I was so anxious for months and couldn't look anyone in the eye because of how badly they hurt me. I avoided my 'best' friend (bro literally told rumors and lies just to be in with a different friend group rather than to be a decent and honest person.) for months and even after graduation, blocking his number as well.

I remember snapping in the middle of my theater production at the ones who hurt me because we all were in the middle of a 'i forgot my line' moment in that scene and after a second I just spoke to break the peace and it turned out I had snapped and I yelled at each of them, of course, in character and whatever, but I hurt so bad.

So..
Plus with Clue also with snapping, they hated that I knew more about a dead body than they did. Because I kept proposing some ideas to make it a little more realistic (because I don't like cartoonish "deaths" or anything because it seems like a try hard thing.

So yeah anyways. Some of it was incredibly graphic, but they later confessed that it was false, others were partial truths but they manipulated it so it was in fact false and not the complete truth. If that makes sense? Most of them were false.

But I feel like theater kids find someone to bully every semester because if they can't find someone to pick on, they're bored or whatever. The person that was bullied before I was was a fantastic singer in choir, a great actor, and a daughter of a police officer. I'm the grandson to a former lieutenant, I can act, but I cannot sing.

But anyways. Yeah.


That’s so horrible! Nobody deserves to go through that

8 Apr 2026, 16:57
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yeah I just don't use snapchat or instagram nowadays.

If it happened on tiktok I would've also not used that app.

But it started approximately late October 2022, so three years ago was when it started. It was also the only time I was *actually* uhh the victim of something I was actually hurt from.

In my mind and in my car, we can't rewind, we've gone too far. (Video Killed The Radio Star - The Buggles)
Clark