OOC Let's Chat!

Charlie Jacobsen wrote: 11 May 2023, 21:34 Hello hello!

Hey C!

Lilliana Havenmore wrote: 11 May 2023, 21:22

Bailey Glade wrote: 11 May 2023, 20:56

Qrow Beithir wrote: 11 May 2023, 20:52

Bailey Glade wrote: 11 May 2023, 20:51

Qrow Beithir wrote: 11 May 2023, 20:49 Bai. You haven't seen the owl house???

...nope... should i have?

Its so good!!!

Its on Disney+

haha i'll add it to my list to watch
its up there with cobra kai (due to luci's insitance, as well as every child that i have taught taekwondo to that has seen the movies and is aghast that i haven't) as well as the rest of the marvel movies and star wars movies i haven't seen yet i have quite the list

Wait. How is it that you teach taekwondo and never watched Cobra Kai?!

um.... well ive taught taekwondo offically for like 5 years, and longer than that.. and have been training since i was 5.... i dunno, but i manage
i get that question a lot, actually which to me is funny

Ava Winchect wrote: 11 May 2023, 21:17 I feel like you and me are very similar, Bailey

lol probably bookworms unite!!

fnaf time

Ava Winchect wrote: 11 May 2023, 22:03 I’m too impatient for you two to get around your feelings

wait does kim have feelings?

you crossed chats i think BaiBai

Keith Moore wrote: 11 May 2023, 22:05 you crossed chats i think BaiBai

it was on purpose, to take idle chat out of that one and to this one

Keith Moore wrote: 11 May 2023, 22:04

Bailey Glade wrote: 11 May 2023, 22:00

Ava Winchect wrote: 11 May 2023, 21:09 Luci x Ash = ultimate ship

*gasp* not mum and dad? not baikim?
ava is fishy... and though that preposition is not rubbish (have to say i agree, somewhat at least - no once can overtake darling baikim in my heart) you really have not forgotten your parents, right?

BaiKim is the best ship

awwww thank you - it def has my heart
though ash and luci are darling as well

lol sorry to break up this random reunion but i kinda feel like pouring my heart out to a forum so i can see if anyone else relates.

my parents are judging me from what i wear, and its so annoying. they keep saying stuff like "People are going to bully you if you wear stuff like that!" or "bullies target those type of people that wear what you're wearing"

seriously, it is so annoying! I have my own path to follow, and they cant just write my destiny for me! im my own person. can anyone else relate?

Also have parent problems, although not those. Just power through it and continue doing whatever you want. Remember, you have less than 18 years to go

Akina Briarwood wrote: 12 May 2023, 01:01 lol sorry to break up this random reunion but i kinda feel like pouring my heart out to a forum so i can see if anyone else relates.

my parents are judging me from what i wear, and its so annoying. they keep saying stuff like "People are going to bully you if you wear stuff like that!" or "bullies target those type of people that wear what you're wearing"

seriously, it is so annoying! I have my own path to follow, and they cant just write my destiny for me! im my own person. can anyone else relate?

yes, i can relate to this, and probably other stuff about parents- It's highly annoying, but in less then a year i can apply to legally live by myself- through tons of paperwork and money and stuff, but it'll be worth it to finally be away from them.

Akina Briarwood wrote: 12 May 2023, 01:01 lol sorry to break up this random reunion but i kinda feel like pouring my heart out to a forum so i can see if anyone else relates.

my parents are judging me from what i wear, and its so annoying. they keep saying stuff like "People are going to bully you if you wear stuff like that!" or "bullies target those type of people that wear what you're wearing"

seriously, it is so annoying! I have my own path to follow, and they cant just write my destiny for me! im my own person. can anyone else relate?

Hi Akina! Every single person here can relate!! I don't know your age, but you are describing one of the most basic facts about growing up -- that of maturing into your own person.

From the outside, I can see both your and your parents perspectives. You're feeling annoyed, maybe disrespected, maybe like yhey don't get you at all.

Trust me: they get you and they love you. Far deeper than you'll ever get until you have your own kids, and come in here pouring your heart out about how they're growing up!

Sometimes what we see when we're kids is seen very differently by our parents. I don't know what the clothes are, but there may very well be a good reason for their reaction. Sometimes kids do bully others because of their clothes. Sometimes they steal or even kill other over clothing. Your parents want to protect you.

And you want to grow up into your own person, with your own will and your own autonomy!

Consider this squabble over clothes as a way for you to demonstrate your maturity? Give it a day while you think. Then go to your mom and dad and converse! Bring a plan with you. Talk about what their concerns are. Express yours. Be respectful. Suggest an alternative and discuss a compromise.

Finding your path is not easy (and really, we never stop seeking it, never stop maturing); but showing your respect for parents and your maturity in yourself will make those transitions so much more fruitful for you! Just keep in mind the reasons they're doing these things!

You may not get everything you want right away, but I can say that a little humility, empathy and respect will serve you well!