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Am I bossy? Absolutely. I don't like to lose, and if I'm told 'no,' then I find another way to get my 'yes.
iNPC Rayne Alex Crown
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2 Jun 2025, 20:38
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That's pretty Graci!Graci Laren wrote: 2 Jun 2025, 20:32 Hello Scout!
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2 Jun 2025, 20:39
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Hiya Scout!
Also, that’s a really cool banner, Graci!
Also, that’s a really cool banner, Graci!
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Thank you:)Phoenix Zhang wrote: 2 Jun 2025, 20:38That's pretty Graci!Graci Laren wrote: 2 Jun 2025, 20:32 Hello Scout!
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2 Jun 2025, 20:40
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@Aurelia Valentine I'm sensing a lot of guilt for something that I don't think is neither yours or Pettely's fault. While people can gently remind people to remain respectful to one another on what they say/do, I do sincerely believe Pettely had nothing but good intentions. I always thought of him as a jokester that just sometimes didn't always land a punchline (as you said, maybe a young teen(?)). I would consider this as testing what people are comfortable with and then acting accordingly which I think Pettely did and was genuinely trying to do.
I agree with your last point about how people shouldn't be scared off from the community. Now that's not to say I know anyone where that has happened but I do sometimes have the fear of overstepping any critiques or teeny nitpicks I've had with the site. By and large, these critiques are not a big deal and I express them with the objective of simply wanting to learn more on how changes and limitations to the site work and why.
I put a post up discussing the iNPC changes and my feelings with them in their FAQ and all day I've wrestled with the idea of taking it down, afraid that staff might take offense or picture me as ungrateful or trying to cheat the system, and a lot of other paranoid thoughts. I didn't even say anything harsh in it but again, its the paranoia of feeling like staff won't like what's written even when it's just feedback that's said in all kindness and respect.
@Scout Fu-Hai SCOUTIE!!!
I agree with your last point about how people shouldn't be scared off from the community. Now that's not to say I know anyone where that has happened but I do sometimes have the fear of overstepping any critiques or teeny nitpicks I've had with the site. By and large, these critiques are not a big deal and I express them with the objective of simply wanting to learn more on how changes and limitations to the site work and why.
I put a post up discussing the iNPC changes and my feelings with them in their FAQ and all day I've wrestled with the idea of taking it down, afraid that staff might take offense or picture me as ungrateful or trying to cheat the system, and a lot of other paranoid thoughts. I didn't even say anything harsh in it but again, its the paranoia of feeling like staff won't like what's written even when it's just feedback that's said in all kindness and respect.
@Scout Fu-Hai SCOUTIE!!!
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iNPC = Casey Stone
2 Jun 2025, 20:41
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told ya Scout will be on soonEmily Shephard wrote: 2 Jun 2025, 20:40 @Aurelia Valentine I'm sensing a lot of guilt for something that I don't think is neither yours or Pettely's fault. While people can gently remind people to remain respectful to one another on what they say/do, I do sincerely believe Pettely had nothing but good intentions. I always thought of him as a jokester that just sometimes didn't always land a punchline (as you said, maybe a young teen(?)). I would consider this as testing what people are comfortable with and then acting accordingly which I think Pettely did and was genuinely trying to do.
I agree with your last point about how people shouldn't be scared off from the community. Now that's not to say I know anyone where that has happened but I do sometimes have the fear of overstepping any critiques or teeny nitpicks I've had with the site. By and large, these critiques are not a big deal and I express them with the objective of simply wanting to learn more on how changes and limitations to the site work and why.
I put a post up discussing the iNPC changes and my feelings with them in their FAQ and all day I've wrestled with the idea of taking it down, afraid that staff might take offense or picture me as ungrateful or trying to cheat the system, and a lot of other paranoid thoughts. I didn't even say anything harsh in it but again, its the paranoia of feeling like staff won't like what's written even when it's just feedback that's said in all kindness and respect.
@Scout Fu-Hai SCOUTIE!!!
Am I bossy? Absolutely. I don't like to lose, and if I'm told 'no,' then I find another way to get my 'yes.
iNPC Rayne Alex Crown
iNPC Rayne Alex Crown
2 Jun 2025, 20:42
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Hehe! Love to Scoutie!!
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iNPC = Casey Stone
2 Jun 2025, 20:44
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Wow really cool bannerGraci Laren wrote: 2 Jun 2025, 20:32 Hello Scout!
Reducio(I made a banner for Graci if she went to the Ren faire
Meh me too but I won't sleep untill I fall asleep heh
Boris Bucky DarwellI have an attitude and a bad temper. But trust me I am a sweetheart
2 Jun 2025, 20:46
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I do hope that Pettely comes back. He shouldn’t have to be scared to come on here. That’s not fair at all. People shouldn’t have been threatening him for just being himself. He is a child of God and shouldn’t be treated like he is nothing.
I feel horrible that he had to wear a mask just to fit in. Everyone should be allowed to be themselves without having to fit into the “status quo”. There have been so many times that people I thought were my friends threw me away because I don’t act like them.
He probably came on here to make friends and join a community of people that wanted to welcome him. Instead, he was thrown out and pushed away. If and when he comes back, I will make sure to let him know that I will do everything I can to make him feel more welcome.
There have actually been multiple times lately that I’ve almost abandoned the site because I thought people were out to get me. That’s why I quit writing solos for awhile. All I can do is hope and pray that he will come back.
I feel horrible that he had to wear a mask just to fit in. Everyone should be allowed to be themselves without having to fit into the “status quo”. There have been so many times that people I thought were my friends threw me away because I don’t act like them.
He probably came on here to make friends and join a community of people that wanted to welcome him. Instead, he was thrown out and pushed away. If and when he comes back, I will make sure to let him know that I will do everything I can to make him feel more welcome.
There have actually been multiple times lately that I’ve almost abandoned the site because I thought people were out to get me. That’s why I quit writing solos for awhile. All I can do is hope and pray that he will come back.
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2 Jun 2025, 20:47
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oh my--Avery Gray wrote: 2 Jun 2025, 20:46 I do hope that Pettely comes back. He shouldn’t have to be scared to come on here. That’s not fair at all. People shouldn’t have been threatening him for just being himself. He is a child of God and shouldn’t be treated like he is nothing.
I feel horrible that he had to wear a mask just to fit in. Everyone should be allowed to be themselves without having to fit into the “status quo”. There have been so many times that people I thought were my friends threw me away because I don’t act like them.
He probably came on here to make friends and join a community of people that wanted to welcome him. Instead, he was thrown out and pushed away. If and when he comes back, I will make sure to let him know that I will do everything I can to make him feel more welcome.
There have actually been multiple times lately that I’ve almost abandoned the site because I thought people were out to get me. That’s why I quit writing solos for awhile. All I can do is hope and pray that he will come back.
i have never seen him but this is horrible sorry you two feel this way
Am I bossy? Absolutely. I don't like to lose, and if I'm told 'no,' then I find another way to get my 'yes.
iNPC Rayne Alex Crown
iNPC Rayne Alex Crown