SPILL THE TEA! OOC IC

Isabella Bernard wrote: 24 Feb 2025, 13:41

Andronica James wrote: 20 Feb 2025, 18:52

ERM I guess drama

I found out from my brother that my ex bf gets a new gf a month after the last & that all the girls he has dated have broken up with him not him break up with them same for me I left him sooo- its kinda heartbreaking? Cuz I still like him but he has a girlfriend now and I don't go to that school anymore so I cant like confront him or any thing + I'm friends with one of his other ex's who broke up with him 4 weeks before I got with him, he's genuinely nice and funny but he also dose not understand when someone dosent like PDA. Especially in school. So I'm stuck between my feelings and hatred

Girl...what's the reason you broke up with him?

Cuz from what I understand:
1)If you broke up with him bcs of something he did, he ain't worth it.
2)He didn't respect your(or so I assume) wish of no PDA - that's strike two.

In my opinion, you should move on. NEVER read your book backwards BUT this is just my suggestion or opinion. Do not let it affect your decision - BTW maybe try writing a pros and cons list!

I broke up with him for long distance I moved so like yeah and I can't do long distance but we moved back now so-

But I should be alright now, I have a girlfriend

Andronica Evans wrote: 24 Feb 2025, 14:18

Isabella Bernard wrote: 24 Feb 2025, 13:41

Andronica James wrote: 20 Feb 2025, 18:52

ERM I guess drama

I found out from my brother that my ex bf gets a new gf a month after the last & that all the girls he has dated have broken up with him not him break up with them same for me I left him sooo- its kinda heartbreaking? Cuz I still like him but he has a girlfriend now and I don't go to that school anymore so I cant like confront him or any thing + I'm friends with one of his other ex's who broke up with him 4 weeks before I got with him, he's genuinely nice and funny but he also dose not understand when someone dosent like PDA. Especially in school. So I'm stuck between my feelings and hatred

Girl...what's the reason you broke up with him?

Cuz from what I understand:
1)If you broke up with him bcs of something he did, he ain't worth it.
2)He didn't respect your(or so I assume) wish of no PDA - that's strike two.

In my opinion, you should move on. NEVER read your book backwards BUT this is just my suggestion or opinion. Do not let it affect your decision - BTW maybe try writing a pros and cons list!

I broke up with him for long distance I moved so like yeah and I can't do long distance but we moved back now so-

But I should be alright now, I have a girlfriend

Ooo! It seems you just didn't get a good enough closure with him . Perhaps try and have a proper closure with him and maybe stay in touch? I wouldn't say - be friends, or rekindle things with him - those are up to how you feel about him, at the end of the day.

But, as mentioned by @Isabella Bernard, he does get two strikes. In general, its very crucial to know how someone reacts to something you said "No" to. That's a major way we get to know how they would treat each and every "No" of ours.

It's sweet to know that you have a girlfriend now though . I wish you guys the best of all worlds.