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SPILL THE TEA!
Ok so basically, there was this girl that came to my school towards the end of 6th grade. Lets call her Audrey (I'll keep names private for reasons). Me and her weren't the greatest together at first but then she became my best friend. SO when we got to 7th grade, she had totally changed and like cut her hair and all that yk? So in 7th grade me and her got into a lot of arguments mostly after I got my boyfriend that year (let's call him Bryce). So I decided I'm sick of the school and half the people in there because Audrey was causing issues. So I decided to go live with my dad and I told my bf at the time and told him it's fine if it isn't gonna work since it was now a long distance. He said it was fine and we ended up dating for like 5 months.
Well while I'm gone, guess what.... *tries to think of a nice word* incredibly annoying human being starts flirting with MY MAN? AUDREY!
I heard from another friend of mine who is also friends with Audrey (lets call her Natalie) that Audrey was flirting with Bryce because I was gone. I heard that Bryce was cheating on me so I broke up with him because I don't need a cheater of a man.
GUYS IT GETS WORSE!!!!!!!!
SO THEN I came back in 8th grade (I'm in rn almost gonna be in high school crazy!) Audrey being the... pick me she is switched up her look AGAIN! (I'm not hating she is super pretty I'm just jealous hehe)
So I found out that over the summer her and my ex had gotten tg.... girl when I tell you I was so mad.
So I don't really care at this point like whatever water under the bridge.
There's this other dude (lets call him Nathan) and he is mad fine I swear!
SO me and him have a class together and just happen to like directly across from each other. When I tell you this man was STARING and I mean it. It was intense. So he does that I go to my next class and tell my friend he was staring at me then I open my school computer and see an email from him. I'm like okay don't freak out
(Imma shorten this up rq)
Me and Nathan got tg like 5 times he was really toxic but wtv. I've cut him off, and cut Audrey off along with some other friends that were super toxic. But I have a class with Nathan this semester and all he does is stare at me from across the room. (and it's a gym so it's a good like 50 ft let me tell you)
But Audrey is being so mean and manipulative like trying to get me with him then saying omg dont get with him and like idrk what to do! Please help
Well while I'm gone, guess what.... *tries to think of a nice word* incredibly annoying human being starts flirting with MY MAN? AUDREY!
I heard from another friend of mine who is also friends with Audrey (lets call her Natalie) that Audrey was flirting with Bryce because I was gone. I heard that Bryce was cheating on me so I broke up with him because I don't need a cheater of a man.
GUYS IT GETS WORSE!!!!!!!!
SO THEN I came back in 8th grade (I'm in rn almost gonna be in high school crazy!) Audrey being the... pick me she is switched up her look AGAIN! (I'm not hating she is super pretty I'm just jealous hehe)
So I found out that over the summer her and my ex had gotten tg.... girl when I tell you I was so mad.
So I don't really care at this point like whatever water under the bridge.
There's this other dude (lets call him Nathan) and he is mad fine I swear!
SO me and him have a class together and just happen to like directly across from each other. When I tell you this man was STARING and I mean it. It was intense. So he does that I go to my next class and tell my friend he was staring at me then I open my school computer and see an email from him. I'm like okay don't freak out
(Imma shorten this up rq)
Me and Nathan got tg like 5 times he was really toxic but wtv. I've cut him off, and cut Audrey off along with some other friends that were super toxic. But I have a class with Nathan this semester and all he does is stare at me from across the room. (and it's a gym so it's a good like 50 ft let me tell you)
But Audrey is being so mean and manipulative like trying to get me with him then saying omg dont get with him and like idrk what to do! Please help
SPILL THE TEA!
@Madisyn Jones
Hey girlie! I am so sorry you had to go through all that! I really wish you have someone to give you one big-ass-hug for all the toxic sh*t you went through.
Your friend, Audrey, trust me, a "pick-me" for real. It is an unsaid rule to never go for your friend's man, let alone have him cheat on you! Ha! The audacity!
Anyway, gurlie, I want you to follow your instincts. Trust me, we girls have real good instincts {I am not genderising anything lovelies, all of us have our instincts}. Trust your instincts! Period!
Like, if your instincts say they are toxic, leave asap!
if your instinct yells at you to run, just RUN!
Trust me when I say this, hot red flags look great in books and are a headache irl darling.
If Audrey is being an attention seeking ....iykyk, then let her beg for your attention, cause a tantrum like a child, and whatnot. Dont give two shucks about her, or them {the guys,both toxic ones}. Trust me when I say this, you will find your gang, those who get you and have no toxic bs. Don't worry , be patient, and stay calm at all times.
Hope this helps
Hey girlie! I am so sorry you had to go through all that! I really wish you have someone to give you one big-ass-hug for all the toxic sh*t you went through.
Your friend, Audrey, trust me, a "pick-me" for real. It is an unsaid rule to never go for your friend's man, let alone have him cheat on you! Ha! The audacity!
Anyway, gurlie, I want you to follow your instincts. Trust me, we girls have real good instincts {I am not genderising anything lovelies, all of us have our instincts}. Trust your instincts! Period!
Like, if your instincts say they are toxic, leave asap!
if your instinct yells at you to run, just RUN!
Trust me when I say this, hot red flags look great in books and are a headache irl darling.
If Audrey is being an attention seeking ....iykyk, then let her beg for your attention, cause a tantrum like a child, and whatnot. Dont give two shucks about her, or them {the guys,both toxic ones}. Trust me when I say this, you will find your gang, those who get you and have no toxic bs. Don't worry , be patient, and stay calm at all times.
Hope this helps
SPILL THE TEA!
Thank you so much! I also have more to add to the story!
So I was sick and out of school for a week but I came back and see another one of my friends, lets call her riley. She was walking with him to class but me and him had been talking while i was sick. SO they were walking and next class i asked her about it and she brushed it off like it was nothing. It pisses me off because she was my friend and now she got with the guy I was talking with! Like seriously?
SO now me and her are no longer friends but today I overheard her talking and saying she wanted to focus on her grades and I don't know if I should tell him or what.
I know once they aren't talking anymore he's gonna come back and try to get with me but he's like.. how do I say it.. one of the boys who you think is innocent but.. says a lot of weird things and does questionable things. I just hate it because I know I shouldn't be mad that they were talking but me and him were talking when they were so... but I still kinda like him. Do I tell him what she's going to do or no?
So I was sick and out of school for a week but I came back and see another one of my friends, lets call her riley. She was walking with him to class but me and him had been talking while i was sick. SO they were walking and next class i asked her about it and she brushed it off like it was nothing. It pisses me off because she was my friend and now she got with the guy I was talking with! Like seriously?
SO now me and her are no longer friends but today I overheard her talking and saying she wanted to focus on her grades and I don't know if I should tell him or what.
I know once they aren't talking anymore he's gonna come back and try to get with me but he's like.. how do I say it.. one of the boys who you think is innocent but.. says a lot of weird things and does questionable things. I just hate it because I know I shouldn't be mad that they were talking but me and him were talking when they were so... but I still kinda like him. Do I tell him what she's going to do or no?
SPILL THE TEA!
@Madisyn Jones
Okie, I have heard of such innocent-type-gaslighting men {not all of them are like that, ofc}.
At this point, it does feel like your friends are just after the men in your life {or the men you choose to be in your life}, and currently, just think of it as a way that they are picking up your trash. While online "talking" stage usually might involve more that one person {cuz u ofc don't know who will ghost you and when}, that is not the case offline. So if you guys were already talking, your "riley" should have stayed in her lane.
But, as the situation turned out as you said it did, please...don't take the "trash" you threw away, back in.
You will def find someone better, girlie. I will pray for the most loyal and greenest flag to enter your life soon!
Okie, I have heard of such innocent-type-gaslighting men {not all of them are like that, ofc}.
At this point, it does feel like your friends are just after the men in your life {or the men you choose to be in your life}, and currently, just think of it as a way that they are picking up your trash. While online "talking" stage usually might involve more that one person {cuz u ofc don't know who will ghost you and when}, that is not the case offline. So if you guys were already talking, your "riley" should have stayed in her lane.
But, as the situation turned out as you said it did, please...don't take the "trash" you threw away, back in.
You will def find someone better, girlie. I will pray for the most loyal and greenest flag to enter your life soon!
SPILL THE TEA!
Thanks so much! I haven't found a better man yet, but I have a lot of guy best friends that are amazing! They are probably my favorite people other than my family ofc! But they treat me better than any relationship I've ever been in and it's all platonic so.. that says a lot lol! Thanks so much for the advice!
SPILL THE TEA!
@Madisyn Jones
Your welcome!
Whispering: Keep me updated when you find a good man! Ill cheer for you!
Your welcome!
Whispering: Keep me updated when you find a good man! Ill cheer for you!
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ERM I guess drama
I found out from my brother that my ex bf gets a new gf a month after the last & that all the girls he has dated have broken up with him not him break up with them same for me I left him sooo- its kinda heartbreaking? Cuz I still like him but he has a girlfriend nowand I don't go to that school anymore so I cant like confront him or any thing + I'm friends with one of his other ex's who broke up with him 4 weeks before I got with him, he's genuinely nice and funny but he also dose not understand when someone dosent like PDA. Especially in school. So I'm stuck between my feelings and hatred
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SPILL THE TEA!
So, in the beginning of my school year, I was friends with this one girl from my class, let's call her Girl A. We were really close and I ended up telling her who my crush was. Well this "crush" was fake. I just did it to check if she was loyal and trust worthy. Two days later, three of my male juniors came up to me and were like "Oh! SO you like this guy(my "crush")! OMG!".
I had told this only to girl A and another girl but I KNEW this was girl A's doing as I saw her hanging out with those exact boys earlier that day and the other girl doesn't even know who they were. So I cut ties with her. She actually did some disgusting stuff later - she puts her finger in her mouth like eww. Anyhoo, so the actual tea is, one of our seniors - girl B and guy A were dating. The whole school shipped them and suddenly they broke up for an unknown reason. Now, girl A and girl B are besties. SO fast-forward a few months, my classmates were teasing about guy B who they shipped her with. She then told them that she's dating someone from our school and later revealed that it was guy A.
Like:
1) Why date your bestie's ex?
2) She broke GIRL CODE!
And then.......she revealed that she dated guy A while he was dating girl b! Like WHAT?! and she was so so proud of herself. Like eww girl.
I had told this only to girl A and another girl but I KNEW this was girl A's doing as I saw her hanging out with those exact boys earlier that day and the other girl doesn't even know who they were. So I cut ties with her. She actually did some disgusting stuff later - she puts her finger in her mouth like eww. Anyhoo, so the actual tea is, one of our seniors - girl B and guy A were dating. The whole school shipped them and suddenly they broke up for an unknown reason. Now, girl A and girl B are besties. SO fast-forward a few months, my classmates were teasing about guy B who they shipped her with. She then told them that she's dating someone from our school and later revealed that it was guy A.
Like:
1) Why date your bestie's ex?
2) She broke GIRL CODE!
And then.......she revealed that she dated guy A while he was dating girl b! Like WHAT?! and she was so so proud of herself. Like eww girl.
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SPILL THE TEA!
Girl...what's the reason you broke up with him?Andronica James wrote: 20 Feb 2025, 18:52ERM I guess drama
I found out from my brother that my ex bf gets a new gf a month after the last & that all the girls he has dated have broken up with him not him break up with them same for me I left him sooo- its kinda heartbreaking? Cuz I still like him but he has a girlfriend now
Cuz from what I understand:
1)If you broke up with him bcs of something he did, he ain't worth it.
2)He didn't respect your(or so I assume) wish of no PDA - that's strike two.
In my opinion, you should move on. NEVER read your book backwards BUT this is just my suggestion or opinion. Do not let it affect your decision - BTW maybe try writing a pros and cons list!
| Isabella Bernard - Gryffindor | No pressure, no diamonds. |
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